“How to Talk to a Woman about Pickup.”
Hey guys!
It’s been a little over a year since we announced the instructor training program. The first wave of applicants we accepted into the program are now ready to graduate, and start sharing their amazing skills with guys across the globe.
In fact, we have our first “new instructor” led boot camp coming up on March, 26th in San Francisco.
Our first graduate, JamesSF, has some pretty epic infield skills which I will be sharing with you via video soon.
In the year of running the program, the results of the students have been pretty amazing – far beyond what I expected.
Everybody made pretty radical progress and, collectively, there have been hundreds of lays – with more LRs come in every week, than the week before.
Meanwhile, ever other PU company out there has started their own year-long coaching program.
I guess imitation is the highest form of flattery.
Yet, we’re still the only company doing video feedback coaching, and we still the only company that provides an instructor program that gets you paid when you graduate. And, that’s just to name a few key differences.
To celebrate a year of success, today, I’m going to give out some of our secrets on…
“How to talk to a Woman about Pickup.”
First off, unless you absolutely have to (because it’s your identity) – you should never… talk about pickup with women that you are sarging.
Even if it is your identity, you should try to use another one to avoid talking about pickup.
Talking about pickup with a set you are interested in… will, absolutely, positively cause problems in the set.
That said, some of you will want to talk about pickup anyway!
So I might as well give you my best handler for it.
You see, my PU identity is so ingrained in my life – I am frequently forced to talk about PU, despite my desire not to.
Here’s the plan I devised, or rather a simple routine, which appears to be the best damage control in those situations.
It typically goes exactly like this:
HB: “What do you do?”
Me: “I’m a writer.”
HB: “What do you write?”
Me: “Books.”
HB: “What kind of books?”
Me: “Dating coaching.”
HB: “Ohhh … really?”
Me: “Yes … most men suck most of the time … wouldn’t you agree?” (this reframes things nicely)
HB: “Yes they do.”
Me: “I’m fighting that fight for you … one man at a time. It’s tough. We’re behind in our numbers. You may not get a date with a cool guy this year.” (note the implied takeaway that me and her aren’t going to be dating)
HB: <laughs> then, “So what to you teach them exactly?”
Me: “Mostly I tell them to imitate my incredible personality.”
HB: <laughs> then “No really, what do you teach them?”
Me: “I teach them how to be this awesome, all the time.”
HB: “So how did you learn all this?”
Me: “I don’t know exactly … I just am this way.”
Me: “So what did you want to be when you were 7?”
Note the 10SSA style edgy responses, and how she keeps pressing you for info at a lower value velocity.
The bottom line secret to this – is to never get into the technical details of PU with them.
The only real answers you should give them all should sub-communicate is that you are a natural, and that others imitate you.
Everything else in the above example adds edge, attraction, and a bit of comfort elements.
The assumed frame of – “Women have a huge problem finding quality men, and were helping you by coaching up cool guys, but you aren’t getting with me” is very powerful.
After letting the thread run for a bit direct it in a different direction as illustrated above.
So if you absolutely must talk about pickup – use this assumed frame, like the example above – and you’ll easy be able to progress into the set!
Now to our Announcement:
Now that some guys are graduating from our “Instructor Program”, we are now ready to fill-in a few regions.
To do that – I’m going to briefly open the doors to the MCI program for new applicants.
Here is the latest update from Fuji in terms of where we are looking for people:
- North America
- New Jersey (1)
- Nebraska, Kansas, Iowa (1)
- Milwaukee, Wisconsin (1)
- Perth, Australia
- Canada, Montreal
- Idaho, Montanta, Wyoming, North Dakota, South Dakota, Minnesota (1)
- Texas
- Vermont, New Hampshire (1)
- Sydney, Australia
- Brisbane, Australia
- Maine
- Alaska – Anchorage
- Hawaii – Honolulu
- Quebec, Canada
- Alabama, Georgia, South Carolina
- Kentucky, Tennesse, North Carolina
- Louisiana, Mississippi
- Oregon
- Utah
- Colorado
- Michigan
- Ohio
- Pennsylvania
- New York State
- Europe
- Iceland
- Ireland
- Spain (1)
- Portugal
- France
- Austria
- Denmark
- Italy
- Russia
- Finland
- Germany (1)
- Norway
If you are in, near, or are planning to move to one of the regions listed – email etheric@mehow.tv for application information. If your region isn’t on the list, you can email Etheric to find out our plans for the region, as well.
Good look in the process. We will accept new applicants through Sunday, Feb 1st at midnight PST.
-Mehow
PS.
If you somehow missed the announcement I made earlier in the week… we’re giving away my, “Get The Girl! – Nightlife Edition” manual for free!
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January 25th, 2009 at 1:08 pm
Entropy said on the Barry Kirkey Radio Show that you were disapointed that the instructors on your program didn’t get good at all.
Is he lying or are you? I don’t know why he would… but it would be easy to understand why you would.
January 25th, 2009 at 1:50 pm
I don’t know why or how Entropy would say anything about me given I’ve never actually talked to the guy and only briefly met him once. The only thing I’ve been dissapointed by is a few guys who weren’t putting the work in at all. Everybody that does what we tell them gets awesome (video coming!). Email support@mehow.tv with the link to the radio episode you are talking about. I’d like to have a listen. We have Entropy scheduled to be filmed for the insider next week, purely on Sinn’s recommendation and I have no idea why the guy would trash talk us especially given the incredible actual success of the program. Bottom line, I never trash talk anybody even when I have plenty or reason to, there is never a good reason for it especially when its total bs. If the program didn’t work then the least reliable source for that information would be Entropy and Barry Kirkey. If it didn’t work you would hear from reliable sources like the students themselves. So I want to listen to the interview to hear exactly what he said, because if you aren’t misquoting him then he is the liar. But I’ll reserve judgment on all that until I hear the interview and talk to Entropy myself. -m
January 25th, 2009 at 2:49 pm
I just listened to the interview with Entropy on Barry’s show… he doesnt mention anything about that. The only thing he says is that he’s hung out with Mehow and I. Where are you getting your facts, brother?
January 25th, 2009 at 3:01 pm
How come London’s not on the list. England propbably has the biggest PUA following after the US.
January 25th, 2009 at 3:15 pm
London is full.
Btw, love the post about talking to a woman about PU. Fortunately, the only people who recognize me on the street right now are community guys so i dont have to worry about women knowing who i am.
I avoid the topic of pickup altogether. As far as women are concerned, I’m a motivational speaker and life coach who specializes in working through your fears and living the life that you want to live without letting doubt and fear hold you back.
January 25th, 2009 at 4:13 pm
I listened to that episode and I don’t remember him saying anything bad about Mehow….
Entropy is pretty cool, good to know that he will be on the insider:)
January 25th, 2009 at 4:43 pm
Hey guys!!! What are your plans for Mexico (talking about the Instructor Programme)?. The PU movement is growing up round here but in general, every single one of us have weaknesses because we are being self-coached based on the stuff we read, watch or listen from you mPUAs.
Hope you have anything for this area!!!
Read ya later!!!
January 25th, 2009 at 11:19 pm
Hey guys whats happenin, not to get into my life story but im gonna get to the juicy part, im under training for the next 7 months with three other pua’s who are in training also, i was wondering about some things if i could get some personal advice etc etc, im in northern illinois milwaukee is about an hour, hour and a half from me, but yeah hit me back if you want, hope to sarge with you all one day, and would love to meet with anyone and soak up any kind of knowledge, lord knows im gonna need as much as i can get lol
Yours Truly
~Method~
January 25th, 2009 at 11:41 pm
Hey guys! I am very appreciative of your work.
Concerning the new instructors, when there will start to be “mehow certified” events and one-one training in Paris (France)?
sincerely
Alberto
January 25th, 2009 at 11:51 pm
We are recruiting instructors for france. email yasha@mehow.tv for more info. -m
January 25th, 2009 at 11:52 pm
This blog is so much better with Johnny and BigDaddy gone. Johnny we might let back on. I’m just giving him a couple weeks to chill out.
-m
January 26th, 2009 at 9:42 am
Mehow,
I’m not sure I agree about how to talk to girls about this. I would generally agree with what you say about personal improvement and how not a lot of people are naturals. But apart from that I think that it very much depends on the situation and the woman you’re talking to. If you mostly approach tipsy girls in high energy surroundings, I think I’d not get into a serious chat about the challenges of human interaction, like you say, but I’ve come across a couple of more mature girls who reacted very well to explaining, say kino escalation.
What’s easier than doing kino escalation while explaining it to her. What’s easier than explaining her that her pupils are diluted and that she’s giving you IOIs she doesn’t even recognize herself. If your definition of “game” isn’t acronyms and telemarketing but understanding human mating psychology, my impression is that this is one of the best things to talk about to women. Throw in some things you know about the complexity of female sexuality, play the cube or strawberry fields and you should be good to go
January 26th, 2009 at 11:36 am
@ Mrd
Im not sure how new you are at this, but I feel that explaining pickup to girls comes across as weird dude. I totally understand where your coming from, but telling a girl that you are a Pick-up artist or whatever is indeed a DLV. Unless you are Mystery and you have your own show and you kind of Pioneerd this whole movement. For example in his Magnum Opus mind of Mystery set, when hes talking to the 4 girls about social dynamics its acceptible. Like I said bro, the kino that you put on women during a pickup is all subtext, I shouldn’t be explained my dude. Your supposed to Kino because its supposed to be natural, your supposed to be a natural touchy person. If you then turn around and try to explain the reason why your touching a girl you come across as weird bro. If you tell a girl that she just flipped her hair because she’s into you, she’ll think your a weird freak, at least in NY. Maybe your from like the Idaho or the Midwest or something but most girls I dont think that”ll fly.
The one thing that I do agree with though is the human mating psychology, yes girls are definatly interested in relationships and the unknown, but in the context of you knowing about it you have to be extremely careful as to how you explain things. Think about it, when Mystery was trying to explain social dynamics to the girls on the magnum opus, he got some weird looks and the girls disagrred with him on the whole IOI thing and the proximity thing as well, he then had to sarcastically say ” well what do I know I only lectured social dynamics at MIT”. Now dude he’s MYstery and he has a show and a book. Your you imagine how some of these girls are going to look at you when you try to explain this shit. haha
Hey DJ Fuji said it best on his audio about pivots and talking about pickup” Being A Pickup Artist in fact is a DLV” It should not be talked about. Keep it in the Vault.
Neo
January 26th, 2009 at 11:49 am
LMFAO
Imagine telling a girl. ” OK Im kino pinging you so that you caan get used to my touch. Now Im going to further do some pure kino, by giving you a kino compliance trust test. I noticed you flipped your hair my way, that an IoI. Speaking of that mind of Mystery thing, Matador looked like a clown trying to explain the trust test to that girl on the infeild footage. ” Your hands followed my hands, that means your confident with me” He was totally stuttering and sounded like a weirdo.
I wanted to stab my self in the eye with a scissor.
January 26th, 2009 at 12:08 pm
I’m in NJ; email sent.
January 26th, 2009 at 12:40 pm
I only talk about PU with girls that I am just good friends with
… but once I do that, it is only a matter of time before we end up fooling around.
January 26th, 2009 at 1:16 pm
Sorry Fuji, I really heard that, I must be crazy then since you’re not the only one saying that he didn’t say it. I guess I’m wrong. Then I guess you can delete my comment since it must be annoying to have it there.
Sorry again…
January 26th, 2009 at 1:21 pm
I still have the episode on my hard drive, I’ll listen to it again. But I trust you
I have to say I was surprised to hear that. Maybe it’s because of my poor English skills.
January 26th, 2009 at 2:18 pm
@Neo,
I’m not that new and if I were in the US and needed the money I’d probably have written a book by now
That said, I’m totally eclectic as to what works. Now as for what you say – if I approached the “pickup thing” as a “game” like you seem to do (from what I get from your reply), you’re absolutely right to not overtly communicate it.
Telling a girl that you are a “pickup artist” (whatever that may mean) probably is a DLV, but that doesn’t mean that you can’t talk to her about “social dynamics” or human attraction, as you mention yourself.
I think I’ve seen the video you mention and I think it serves my point very well. Remember how M. is explaining how hand scratching is hard wired as an attraction signal and how the blond girl is starting to scratch her hand?
“Like I said bro, the kino that you put on women during a pickup is all subtext, I shouldn’t be explained my dude.”
The thing is, subtext or not, it’s working. I’m not saying you should tell women everything you know about attraction, but if they ask, tell them without being ashamed for it. Own yourself. Don’t tell them about practicing the jealous girlfriend opener in the bathroom, but tell them that there is a lot of things not many people know about attraction and that you’re committed to understanding human attraction so you can eventually find the 100% perfect girl. You see the difference, don’t you?
“Your supposed to Kino because its supposed to be natural, your supposed to be a natural touchy person. If you then turn around and try to explain the reason why your touching a girl you come across as weird bro.”
As with everything, this is a matter of performance. All I can say is that it has worked for me.
“If you tell a girl that she just flipped her hair because she’s into you, she’ll think your a weird freak, at least in NY. Maybe your from like the Idaho or the Midwest or something but most girls I dont think that”ll fly.”
I’m from Europe. But in my opinion, this is less about culture than about the conversation and connection you’re having with a particular woman. With the right woman, this would work in NYC as it would work in Paris and Rome.
“The one thing that I do agree with though is the human mating psychology, yes girls are definatly interested in relationships and the unknown, but in the context of you knowing about it you have to be extremely careful as to how you explain things.”
My point exactly, don’t tell them how you practices eye-contact in the mirror, tell them how it’s amazing how so many people walk through their lives missing so many chances because they don’t understand each other’s subtexts and body language.
“Now dude he’s MYstery and he has a show and a book. Your you imagine how some of these girls are going to look at you when you try to explain this shit. haha”
They would be seriously interested, I actually believe that. No one forces you to believe me, though.
“Hey DJ Fuji said it best on his audio about pivots and talking about pickup” Being A Pickup Artist in fact is a DLV” It should not be talked about. Keep it in the Vault.”
You know what? A feminist in NZ told me about how she was put off by her ex being a PUA although he had explained to her that “it’s only to get to know her”. I explained the whole thing to her (nascent post modernist men’s self-help movement) and in five minutes she was a fan of “the game”. It’s all about framing. I wouldn’t use the word “PUA”, as it needs definition, and by using it you may not get to the point where you can explain it.
But telling someone about being interested in improving your social skills is only a DLV if you believe that being interested in improving your social skills is a DLV. Quite frankly, in my book, that’s replicating a “naturals” and “afc” dichotomy that is probably contradicted by everyone reading this on a weekly basis.
Confidence is based on congruence. If you can’t own an important part of yourself and communicate it in an attractive way, then it will be difficult to become congruent with yourself. Without congruence though, that’s my opinion, it will be hard to get to the point where “inner game” means more than a statistical reference to “outer game”-induced sucesses.
Again, just my 2 ct.
January 26th, 2009 at 7:31 pm
@ Mrd
Hey dude im totally with you on the way you explain things now. Yea if a girl wants to understand how we interact and how we attract, then the way you just explained it is on point bro.
I think were on the same page about alot of things. I guess where we were misconstrued is actually talking about the pickup during the pickup. Understood.
January 26th, 2009 at 10:43 pm
Bobo,
I never said that. There’s a lot of shit-talking that goes on that show and facts get mixed up all the time. Either way, I never said anything bad about Mehow, Fuji or the coaching program.
Entropy
http://www.entropypua.com
January 27th, 2009 at 1:17 am
Entropy,
Ya … Bebo already fessed that he dosen’t know where the misquote came from. It’s a non issue. But thanks for posting and I can’t wait to narrate your issue. Fuji said you have some of the tighest game he’s ever seen.
-m
January 27th, 2009 at 4:34 am
MRD,
Read up on the 4th attraction switch – willingness to emote. It’s the reason you always want to subcommunicate to girls that you’re a natural. That you don’t read books on how to interact or pick up women. It’s a violation of not only of the the attraction switch but of S&R itself. Even if you do everything else right, you’ll just create more LMR later. Neil even mentions it in The Game. He says that if girls knew who he was or what he was doing, they would make him wait a week or two longer to sleep with them. It created excessive LMR, and that’s assuming he didn’t screw anything else up.
You short-circuit attraction when you talk about learning it synthetically. As far as all of my girls are concerned, i just happened to be born with these talents. There’s only a couple of girls who know i wasnt born a natural. And i’ve been with them for 2 and 4 years, respectively.
If a girl were to point blank ask me if i knew how to make her attracted to me, i’d still play dumb.
January 27th, 2009 at 5:50 am
Yeah, sorry Entropy, I really thought you said it. I listened to the show again, and I didn’t find it. So I guess I’m crazy. Maybe my memory is filled with things that didn’t happen. I swear I didn’t do it on purpose…
I now feel bad for it, I hope I didn’t cause any big issue.
January 27th, 2009 at 7:46 am
“Read up on the 4th attraction switch – willingness to emote. It’s the reason you always want to subcommunicate to girls that you’re a natural. That you don’t read books on how to interact or pick up women. It’s a violation of not only of the the attraction switch but of S&R itself. Even if you do everything else right, you’ll just create more LMR later. Neil even mentions it in The Game. He says that if girls knew who he was or what he was doing, they would make him wait a week or two longer to sleep with them. It created excessive LMR, and that’s assuming he didn’t screw anything else up.”
This right here is 210% true. If you think about all the guys on the PUA season 1 and Season 2, they most definately have got to deal with excessive LMR. I guess for them being on the show and it being known that thier PUA’s, its the happy medium of things.
Hey Fuji, I guess its kind of funny that, “if you dont know what your doing, nd your just flowing with it” it looks like you just got it.
But if you can explain how you manuevered your way to doing things during the pickup, your really look like a lame.
kind of ironic
Neo
January 27th, 2009 at 9:01 am
DJ Fuji,
Girls will (try to) let every guy wait if they believe he’s a player, natural or whatever. It’s not just a shit test, but also a matter of relationship power negotiation. And they certainly don’t want to feel like you’re not being honest with them or like they’re just another mark in your bedpost, and telling them you’re a PUA/PUG will certainly do *that* trick. But that’s *not* what I’ve been talking about.
“You short-circuit attraction when you talk about learning it synthetically.”
Again, in my opinion, that very much depends on *HOW* you talk about it.
“There’s only a couple of girls who know i wasnt born a natural. And i’ve been with them for 2 and 4 years, respectively.”
Again, don’t get me wrong – I’m not arguing in favour of telling every girl you meet everything you know about human mating. But I think it’s more important to own yourself than pretend something you’re not should she actually ask about it. And I think it can be a DHV – for myself, learning about this kind of thing has allowed me to reconnect with a part of myself that I had somehow shut down for a long time. In that sense, it’s a re-naturalisation. But I was willing to leave my comfort zone and try things I did not do before so I could become a better man. I am on my journey, and reading and experiences are part of that.
“If a girl were to point blank ask me if i knew how to make her attracted to me, i’d still play dumb.”
Fair enough, I agree here. But that’s something else, in my book. By the way, if she asks that, she probably already IS attracted to you.
January 27th, 2009 at 5:56 pm
I’m a dating coach in Vancouver BC. In my experience it’s very hard for me to explain I teach “self help” because my companies name is “Man Meets Woman.” Pretty self explanatory.
When the girls ask where I learned I say “I read alot of books.” That’s usually a good enough answer, and when they ask which ones I say “Anthony Robbins, Echardt Tolle, etc.” I say it’s all about confidence and believing in yourself. I also say “I teach self help, but most people want to learn to date, so I teach that.” It usually goes over well.
Some girls get very attracted to me, some get suspicious. I did have one girl stop seeing me because I said I taught “pickup.” It was because I was being hit on by a bunch of drunk girls and that turned her off….she had low self esteem I think.
Overall most people think it’s a cool job. But I wish my company had a different name.
I also explain that most of my clients lack social skills, so I teach social skills. Then I change the subject to my other passions like music, poetry, etc.
But usually it goes like this:
girl: What do you do?
Me: I teach self help
Girl: Cool! What’s your company called?
Me: Man Meets Woman
Girl:….Are you a dating coach?
Oh well. Maybe I’ll just say “dating coach” from now on as it’s getting so mainstream.
Thanks Mehow, I learned alot from your videos.
January 28th, 2009 at 12:15 am
I’d like to learn from the videos as well. I paid enough for them. Problem is for whatever reason it takes Mehow, Inc. weeks to get the package out. It’s been over month since I ordered the El Topo DVD and it’s yet to arrive and three weeks since 10SSA has been ordered and I can’t get a response from anyone either by e-mail or voice-mail as to when I might expect it. I’ve gotten stuff from China faster than this. Mehow, you guys really need to work on the customer service. It makes me not want to buy anything. Three e-mails and a voice mail and still no reply. These aren’t hard to ship items and customer service shouldn’t end as soon as the purchase is complete.
January 28th, 2009 at 10:15 am
I used to have a stash of porn, that I would hide from the girls I wished were in my bed.
Now I have a stash of pickup material, that I hide from the girls that are in my bed.
Reflecting on this topic more, I would never talk about PUA with girls that I have just met. I only talk about it to the women that were part of my life before I began to make changes.
January 29th, 2009 at 9:30 pm
Mehow,
I would love to see Captain Jack on Infield Insider. He obviously taught Sinn and El Topo lots of stuff and ET was going on about him alot in the commentary.
CJ said he would be happy to take part in a conference call some of us had today although he did say it wouldn’t be very exciting to watch as he wants it to look like a normal conversation!
I am sure lots of guys here would love to see him in action. Maybe you can make it happen?
January 30th, 2009 at 3:47 am
Go bug CJ himself to come on the insider. We’d love to have him on but he doesn’t want the exposure. Ditto for BradP. I’d love to see Brad on but he thinks that we’ll give away all his secrets if he goes on video or something.
January 30th, 2009 at 10:15 am
Yasha is legit and a really solid guy. I would suggest emailing support@mehow is a better way to verify him than posting it on this blog. Good luck Goose.
January 30th, 2009 at 10:41 am
I completely disagree with not talking to girls about pickup. Every one of the girls that I’ve gotten around to dating since joining the community I’ve talked to about my experiences over the past year. And they all loved it. Especially the higher end girls, like the surgeon I met at a friend’s birthday party about a month ago. People are really interested in talking about the human condition, and dating is one of those things that can be a crapload of fun to talk about.
Regarding the DLV argument: I believe that truly alpha people are those who are secure enough in their own value to live authentically. In field I have seen this attitude outperform posturing 10-fold, both in getting women and in developing satisfying relationships of every other sort. Once you are that kind of guy, then admitting that you used to not be that kind of guy isn’t going to ding you at all. The only way it might is if she’s afraid that she won’t be able to keep you now… and the fix there is easy: let her know that you’re with her for a reason, and the fact that you have the skills to meet another woman doesn’t change that reason.
And that’s just one benefit of living authentically, being one person no matter who you’re talking to. There are a host of other benefits, which add up to a VERY compelling argument in favor of conducting your whole life that way. One cavaet: this does NOT mean that you have to overwhelm her with information up front. Maintaining mystery is part of creating a healthy relationship. But once you have decided that she’s the kind of girl that you want to share more of yourself with, then this is definitely something you can feel perfectly ok sharing with her.
January 30th, 2009 at 6:28 pm
Hey Guys, This is Yasha. Wanted to say thanks to everyone who called in! Connecting with you guys is my favorite part of the job. The responses have been overwhelmingly positive, and it’s always great to meet more likeminded guys looking to improve their lives.
For those of you who haven’t gotten my letter, I’m handling some of the promotions here at Mehow Inc. If you’re looking for a great deal on some of the products, or you want to talk game and chat about sticking points, shoot me an email at sales@mehow.tv or call me up on my updated phone number: 1 617 418 1877. I’m also an instructor in training for the company, so if you want to know about our MCIP program, I can tell you about my experiences.
And lastly, I know some of you are marketing-averse individuals (I am) and are skeptical about someone from the company willing to reach out to you, but as you all know, this is not your average company because we all believe in giving value (That’s what Mehow’s game is based on, and what attracted me to the company in the first place). That’s why I’m here. So, I invite you to pick up the phone, and put aside your skepticism until we’ve had a chance to chat.
Sincerely,
Yasha
Mehow Sales Team
Btw, if I haven’t gotten back to you yet I apologize. I’ve been getting emails and phone calls at the rate of 1 per minute since ten minutes after I contacted you. I’m committed to getting back to all of you as soon as I can.
Y
January 31st, 2009 at 4:05 am
31 days, nothing recieved yet. I’m wondering if something went wrong.
January 31st, 2009 at 8:35 am
Crypt > It’s nothing compared to the 10SSA. He’s still working on the volume 2 because he wrote the 10SSA in the meantime. He obviously knew that he wouldn’t be able to respect
January 31st, 2009 at 8:38 am
Crypt > It’s nothing compared to the 10SSA. He’s still working on the volume 2 of the GAM because he wrote the 10SSA in the meantime. He obviously knew that he wouldn’t be able to respect the deadline if he started something else.
But when I get it, I’m sure I’ll forget about the delay because it’s going to be a great product. In the meanwhile, I’m pissed
January 31st, 2009 at 9:35 am
I’m just wondering since I know from other people that they allready gotten their stuff after two weeks whereas I’m waiting for a whole month and havent even recieved any information from the support about it. Theyre mostly beating around the bush and sometimes not even answering at all.
I mean cmon, I expected more for 400 dollars.
January 31st, 2009 at 11:32 am
Im actually w8ing for the 10ssa, not for the GAM. I wanted to order it too, but I probably wont now because too much trouble in comparison to the price.
February 11th, 2009 at 1:08 pm
The whole “tell them or not about pickup” can be pretty benign if you frame it right. Hell, I’ve used a whole routine based on calling out IOIs and it worked wonders. I help teach workshops for the local lair here in DC/Baltimore and the girl I was out with last Friday wanted to know what it was I did because I mentioned I was going to busy Saturday. In the end, it was framed as a dating coach. She blurted out “Oh, like Hitch”. I rolled my eyes, but went with it “yeah, something like that”. Because it was her idea in a sense she wanted to know more about it. When she asked me to show her stuff, I refused and told her it’s trade secrets playfully teasing her. It’s all about subtext and frame control.
February 11th, 2009 at 3:37 pm
Talking about game is a GREAT opener and conversation, especially if they know about it. You’re basically taking their defense completely down when discussing game. Kinda like the trojan horse, eh? I do this all the time. LMR is tough, but I get by…
February 27th, 2009 at 11:07 am
Very Good
February 27th, 2009 at 11:39 am
How come Poland is not on that list??
Co jest grane?? Tam tez chyba rynek istnieje.