Use Your Magic 10SSA Decoder Ring
Guys,
Mehow here.
I just wrapped up the first heavily 10SSA based GTG boot camp in Orlando and the feedback and infield results were pretty astonishing.
The biggest single thing I discovered from lecturing the 10SSA methods was that by explaining the system live – guys were able to gain a significantly deeper understanding of these new methods.
I received feedback like, “I got it after reading the book but now, after you explained it, I get it at a much deeper level and feel I can immediately apply it.”
In the live format, I also taught a ton of new 10SSA sound bites and it was probably the single most entertaining day of lecture I’ve ever done. And, guys there – were falling out of their chairs.
Then there was the Infield demonstration portion of the boot camp:
During the first 30 minutes, I had to literally shove 3 sets off me because they wouldn’t let me go and continued to chase me around the venue. And, there was a 3 minute make-out.
It was crazy… and extremely exciting.
As the students put it, “My mind is getting blown. This is insane.”
After doing the lecture, it occurred to me that I had to add this style of lecture to the 10SSA “Superconference”, which is on March 7th.
After all, this type of lecture really flipped guy’s reality, even the guys that already read the book.
So I made the decision to expand the 10SSA “Superconference” to all existing 10SSA customers to TWO DAYS.
You see, with me talking for 8 hours and the insane lineup of guest speakers (more announcements on that coming soon) we’ll need two days to get through everything.
I will personally lecture on the entire system in a live format, show video of it in field (this is going to be the sickest infield footage ever recorded anywhere, period) and then have the best gurus in the world all add value.
To top it all off we will be taking your questions and throw in other surprises. This means the 10SSA “Superconference” will now be 8 DVDs instead of 4.
Keep in mind, the 10SSA system – was supposed to be just a manual, and CD set.
I added the Live, “Superconference” workshop at the last minute.
Since then, we had to change the venue to one that would accommodate twice as many attendees – and now… I’m doubling the “Superconference” from one day to two full days!
And, that’s not to mention the DVD production… which just went from a 4 DVD bonus to a total of 8 DVDs.
Needlessly to say… my bookkeeper is flipping out.
I believe she considers me either insane, or the worst business person she’s ever dealt with.
She’s telling me that from an accounting point of view… I’m practically paying guys to get my new 10SSA system – and to attend the “Superconference.”
Maybe she’s right – but I can’t only go halfway on this thing.
And, I can’t go back and raise the price for all the guys who already committed.
So here’s the bottom line:
Those of you that are already 10SSA customers… make plans to stay in Vegas, March 7th and 8th.
Just consider this as the unique benefit for gain, by dealing with me – a guy who may have a chronic “over delivery” problem.
Also at last weekend’s seminar, guys were asking me how I arrived at this system.
Well, one method was analyzing the infield transcripts of guys that I knew were amazing at mid-game.
I’m going to reveal how I did this, by showing you one of my personal analyses of Hypnotica’s game below.
This particular analysis (amongst many) really opened the door for me to the truth about mid game.
Read the below transcript and then my notes on it at the end.
If you have the 10SSA system already you will understand what the (A), (C), (S), (E), (d) labels mean (consider the Hypnotica transcript a free bonus J).
If you don’t, you’ll have to wait until you do to get the full benefit of this transcript analysis.
Hypnotica: Either or, or bring it over here. I’m loosening these girls up. This is my friend, <Confidentiality Mute> right? This <Confidentiality Mute> says she’s not having a good time. She’s about to have a good time.
And this is <Confidentiality Mute> we’re going to call you something else. How about we call you… Dirty.
You’re going to be Dirty tonight! (S)
HBDarkHair: I’m going to have to think about that… I’m a nice girl…
Hypnotica: Nothing wrong with being Dirty… (S)
HBDarkHair: Dirty in a good way?
Hypnotica: What does Dirty in a good way, mean to you? (S+D)
HBDarkHair: When I’m drunk… I can’t explain it – you’ll have to see…
Hypnotica: When you’re drunk? What does that mean? (d)
HBDarkHair: Like I said, I can’t explain it. You’ll have to see…
Hypnotica: I have to see what it means? So if I get you drunk, I’m going to see what Dirty means? (A)
HBLightHair: <Laughs>
4:13
HBDarkHair: Smashed…
Hypnotica: Alright, you don’t mind if I end up kicking you out of here? Did you guys come together? (E+D)
HBLightHair: Yea, we did…
Hypnotica: Well, you’re going to be leaving by yourself tonight. (E+D)
HBLightHair: No, we always leave together!
Hypnotica: Tell her, Dirty… (A+D)
HBDarkHair: Well, you can give me your number…
Hypnotica: I can give you my number? It’s not going to work that way… You’re going to—(D)
HBDarkHair: Why is it so hard?
Hypnotica: Why am I so what? (S)
HBDarkHair: Hard…
Hypnotica: I’m not hard. I’m just being direct… (S)
HBLightHair: How about, we rode together, how about and I’m driving. I’ll take her, later. Wherever, you guys can exchange numbers and you guys can meet up later. If she likes you…
Hypnotica: Oh she’ll like me. I don’t know if you like me— (A)
HBLightHair: Maybe you should <Inaudible>
Hypnotica: Nod your head. Just nod your head, you will like it. Your friend is going to like it. I don’t know about you, you look like you have a boyfriend. Do you have a boyfriend? (E+D)
HBLightHair: Why?
Hypnotica: Do you have a boyfriend? (d)
HBLightHair: Why?
Hypnotica: Because you look like you have a boyfriend. (A)
HBLightHair: Why?
Hypnotica: I can tell… (A)
HBLightHair: I plead the fifth…
Hypnotica: You plead the fifth… But you don’t. Do you? (A+D)
HBDarkHair: No…
Hypnotica: You sure you don’t? (D)
HBDarkHair: I mean, I talk to whoever I want to talk to. But I’m not in a committed relationship.
Hypnotica: But you’re in something… I can tell. You’re in something. (C)
HBDarkHair: Yea, something…
Hypnotica: What does that mean? (d)
HBDarkHair: Something, like—
Hypnotica: Do I have to worry about some dude freaking out and being like, “Dude, that’s my chick!” (A+D)
HBDarkHair: No… Well, kind of, because my pussy is really good. So if I fucked him… then he might have to…
Hypnotica: Is that what he says, or is that what you say? (E+D)
HBDarkHair: Both… I know because it’s been told. And the reaction. Why are we talking about this right now?
Hypnotica: Because you’re saying that you have a good pussy and I’m saying you’re kind of jumping to the conclusion here… I know. I’m sending you, if you can leave now and leave your friend. (E)
HBLightHair: I’m not a good friend if I leave her…
Hypnotica: You’ll be a good friend if she enjoys her experience and says pick me up tomorrow, from Las Vegas we got married! (A)
HBLightHair: <Laughs> You’re crazy!
Hypnotica: You want to wait for your drinks? (d)
HBDarkHair: Yes!
Hypnotica: Hold on to the back of her, I’ll hold on to the front of her, like this because you got a boyfriend, right? (A)
HBLightHair: Why, you don’t like two girls?
Hypnotica: I like two girls, but I actually prefer one. (C)
HBDarkHair: Really?
HBLightHair: Wow!
HBDarkHair: I’ve never heard that!
Hypnotica: Really? (C)
HBDarkHair: We like to do things together, but that’s a first…
Hypnotica: Well, sorry! I’m a little different. I like to focus my attention on someone… (C)
HBLightHair: On what?
Hypnotica: I like to give all of my attention to one person. I’m not saying I’m single and you’re the only person to me… (C)
HBLightHair: What?
Hypnotica: I said— (A)
HBLightHair: I heard it, I heard it…
Hypnotica: Well, actually it didn’t really make sense to me. So what did you hear? What did you hear? (C+D)
HBLightHair: Are you trying to tell me you’re not a one-woman man?
Hypnotica: Actually I’m not. Actually, I’m not. I prefer one on one, but I’m not a one-person-woman man. Is that what you call it? I’m not a one guy kind of girl, something like that. That makes sense? (C+D)
HBLightHair: A one-woman man!
Hypnotica: I’m not – I like to keep things open. But I also like close things. Tell your friend, to go get us some gum. (S+D)
HBLightHair: I have some, but you can’t have!
Hypnotica: Well get some for your friend! What kind of gum is this? (d)
HBDarkHair: Ahh!!
Hypnotica: I need a fresh piece. (d)
HBDarkHair: I haven’t drank anything all night, I brush my teeth every day, three times a day.
Hypnotica: You brush your teeth three times a day? (d)
HBDarkHair: A night? A day…
Hypnotica: Alright. You have confidence in that? You have confidence in that? Hold on, we’ll check it… (A+D)
How this new style of mid game works is pretty in depth (yet paranormally simple once you “get it”) so I can’t explain it all here. But note the following
- Hypnotica never talks for more than 10 seconds.
- Everything he says causes an emotional reaction in the women.
- There is a constant interaction.
- A traditional DHV is nowhere to be found.
Think about it, AND what this means for the future of your game… and then, how it changes what you have been doing.
-Mehow
PS
Because I know some people are going to ask…
“YES!”
This set resulted in a full close. Incidentally, so did the one from my last blog – where the girl and I are talking about getting married in Vegas. As did a ton of other sets.
PPS
“YES!”
This works for guys like me… as it will for you.
In fact, although my version of this new structure is more involved, I sound just like Hypnotica in portions of my pickup… only even more extreme.
For example, at last weekend’s boot camp, I used the following on every set:
Her: <mouthing off somehow>
Me: “You have no idea what you just started… I’m going to beat you about the head with my cock.” (Credit MCIP Instructor Dido)
Her: <laughs hysterically>
Me: “No really … it’s unfortunate you are a foot shorter than me cause it will reach that high.”
Her: <I have to hold her up because she’s falling over from laughing while she’s pawing at me>
Her: <recovers> “What are doing after?”
Now, I have miles of material just like – that I can’t wait to share with you at the 10SSA “Superconference.”
And the reason is simple: Two to four hour lays are normal with this system.
See you in Vegas!
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January 12th, 2009 at 11:25 am
““I have no idea what you just started… I’m going to beat you about the head with my cock.”
haha
I’m the Greatest Ladies Man on Earth and even **I** never thought to tell a girl that when I first met her.
Seems promising…in certain situations. In fact, I can think of a few I was recently in.
Of course, it didn’t matter. You almost ALWAYS get the results you want in field, even without this new cutting edge material.
Well, you do if you’re…
Big Daddy
PS xoxox haha
January 12th, 2009 at 12:57 pm
Hey Mehow, is it normal that I havent gotten your CDs up till now? I ordered them 13 days ago but they seem to havent gotten to me so far. I’m over in europe, so thats maybe why – but again, roughly two weeks should do it I’d say.
January 12th, 2009 at 1:17 pm
I haven’t received my CD’s or a DHL tracking number yet, paid 31 days ago. No response from support.
Thanks
January 12th, 2009 at 1:26 pm
its interesting,
most guys in midgame just talk too much and give value away to freely, and when they try to get the women to give value back they basically ask her to give a speech about her life and wonder why she finds it difficult and doesnt comply “what did you want to be when you were 7?”, hypnotica seems to make statements and ask smaller question in order to get the girl to give value back,
this 10SSA is intriguing
January 12th, 2009 at 1:48 pm
Big Daddy the worlds greatest ladies-boy man in the world here!!!
Get my system to pickup at all men’s bathrooms on Interstates across the continent. It is the best!!!
You will be pulling better than George Michael in a park bathroom with Big Daddy’s System.
Yea …. Big Daddy for Little Boys!!!
PS xoxoxox
January 12th, 2009 at 2:19 pm
LOL
January 12th, 2009 at 2:22 pm
BD is a passive-aggressive, he has an impotent rage that he can’t express in real life, so he needles other people as much as he can to share his pain. Irritating other people is at least SOME form of power right?
He has been banned from other forums for disruption.
Do you know any happy, or successful people who resort to his behavior? no.
How’s that impotent rage feel BD? Feels good huh ; )
January 12th, 2009 at 2:28 pm
Big Daddy IMMITATOR Says:
blah..blah…blah…
Like I said.
Big Daddy
Ladies Want Him
Men Want to BE him.
haha
January 12th, 2009 at 2:43 pm
blow..blow…blow… is what you’ll do down on Haight St. with the freaky guy roller blading around with flourescent spandex and knee pads when you use the Big Daddy Method!!
Like I said.
Big Daddy
Lady-Boys Want Him
Men Want to BEAT him.
haha
January 12th, 2009 at 2:58 pm
This blog is kinda cool.
Just change your user name to BIG DADDY and you too can be Big Daddy – The Greatest Ladies Man on Earth/.
Well…at least on this blog.
Try it yourself…
All of the thrills.
NONE of the Nooky.
haha
Big Daddy
Still the greatest…
January 12th, 2009 at 3:08 pm
Big Daddy Method
Try it yourself…
All of the frills.
NONE of the Nooky.
haha
Big Daddy
Still not the greatest…
January 12th, 2009 at 3:17 pm
I was told by support that they delayed sending the 10ssA manual because Mehow wanted to add new material but the cds went out. Support needs to communicate what the true story is on this product to loyal purchasers.
January 12th, 2009 at 3:32 pm
Hey Mehow, watching Hypnotica in action makes you realise there are so many layers in what he says and how he says it, I think the best way to demonstrate value is by actually HAVING IT, I honestly think that 10SSA just captures all this, either way props to you and the man Hypnotica, though still the 10SSA seems way too expensive…
January 12th, 2009 at 6:16 pm
Hi im Big Daddy an ill suck yo dick if you buy my weak system
ps:I’ll eat your ass if you buy 2
Big Daddy
The Big Daddy Method
January 12th, 2009 at 8:51 pm
Awwww, look at the BigBoy. I was wrong!!
Posting all those posts you strong man you.
Big Baddy is a big strong Boy afterall!!
January 12th, 2009 at 9:25 pm
Big Daddy Hater/Loooozer A writes: “ill suck yo dick…I’ll eat your ass!!”
Big Daddy Hater/Loooozer B writes: “Big Baddy is a big strong Boy”
Sheesh…No wonder they guys can’t get with chicks.
They don’t want to.
haha
Big Daddy
Too Easy…
January 12th, 2009 at 10:07 pm
Folks…
If you’ll allow me to take a short break from allowing these Big Daddy Haters to continue to self-destruct before our very eyes, allow Big Daddy – the Greatest Ladies Man on Earth to break down a few things.
Mehow’s was gracious enough to offer me some advice on how to approach my Myspace friend.
I hope he’ll never do it again though because, just as soon as he did… all these jealous LOOOZERS started posting their chat transcript asking Mehow to help their PATHETIC situations. haha. Fortunately I think Mehow is smart enough NOT to fall into that trap again.
Unfortunately however Mehow’s advice was a TOTAL.FAIL.
She has never responded.
And no, it wasn’t because I said haha or signed it xxoo. I’ve done the same in convos with her before.
Sheesh, when you get that superstitious, you might as well blame her unresponsiveness to me not using my LUCKY keyboard. haha.
As a side note, this IS the kind of reasoning these LAME BRAINED wannabe PUA’s use, you know.
They say to themselves after a night of UTTER failure in the clubs -
“If only I’d approached at a 37 degree angle instead of a 33 degree, she would have been mine.”
“Darn! I know she would have given me the digits if I’d made that last statement 2/1000ths of a second slower.
haha
NO, it was just bad advice.
Now, I don’t know what would have been good advice, which is why I asked Mehow, so I’m NOT pointing fingers.
But the proof is in the pudding. NO response means NO Nooky means NOT a good response.
Online game is new to me. I don’t have to use it since I bring such an OVERWHELMINGLY INTOXICATING PRESENCE to real life game, but for the benefit of those poor ladies overseas and in in other parts of the country who have yet to DRINK DEEP OF Big Daddy’s Essence, I WOULD like to learn a few things…
Now, as for my buddy Hypnotica…
Here’s the general rule: If a girl you just met uses the word pussy (in reference to her own) and fuck in the first 5 minutes of chatting with her…she WILL be Big Daddy’d that night. Probably more than once! haha
In the Midwest, the day before Thanksgiving is the BIGGEST party day of the year – bigger than even NYEve and St. Pat’s.
Big Daddy met a couple girls that night who, within the first 3 minutes used the expression ‘pubic hair’ and ‘lezbos’ all without ANY Big Daddy prompting.
That’s ALL Big Daddy needed to hear. Whooooooooo!!!
To be fair, I’d been making out with a couple other chicks prior, so I was already all Big Daddy’s up! haha
Let’s put it this way, if a girl starts talking like that when you JUST met her…you ought to retire from picking up chicks if you can’t close that deal!
So, bottom line, I’m looking forward to hearing more from Mehow, but in some cases – like the one cited in the transcript – the girls are already good to go…
Big Daddy
The Greatests Ladies Man on Earth
January 12th, 2009 at 10:20 pm
Hey I was wondering, will there be meterial and ready to use soundbites in the book?
January 13th, 2009 at 12:18 am
HEY MEHOW….
a sugestion to your loyal mail list people like me be happy at all:
in a piece you reveiled (S) and (E), and I just figured out the (D) cause I adopted this to my game after learn Get The Girl Manual…
but it would be so fucking valuable an e-mail with this transcription telling us loyal subscribers what are the elements of your new 10ssa method
January 13th, 2009 at 1:01 am
Lord Jorge > Well, he tells what these elements are to his CUSTOMERS… And what is a “loyal subscriber”, by the way? Someone who put his email address in a field and clicked on the “subscribe” button? Yeah, in that case, you deserve the whole book delivered for free
Mehow > I’m not sure, but it looks like we have a choice between attending the superconference and receiving the dvd’s? I would like to enjoy this opportunity to go to the US for the first time in my life, but if that means that I have to pass on the dvd’s, I’m not interested.
Could you reply as soon as possible so that I can book my flight and hotel?
January 13th, 2009 at 1:11 am
I hope you understand that we need information on the SuperConference as soon as possible, so that we can book flight+hotel really soon and get them cheaper. A week-end like that could cost europeans around 500€ (I understand that it costs a lot to you too).
The location (for the hotel), the option to have both the live event and the dvd’s, …
And could someone from your team make arrangements with a hotel in order to get a good price (you have that power if you can book hundreds of rooms)?
January 13th, 2009 at 4:55 am
Hey Ced, as far as I know, Mehow wrote on another blogpost that you will get both, the conference and the DVDs of it.
@ Kevin J, I asked too for a tracking number, but I didnt get a response as well – which is kind of strange, because if i recall it right there was a statement, that they will send out tracking numbers to everyone. Don’t know if I red it on the blog or on the newsletter. But I havent recieved any information about the shipment till now.
January 13th, 2009 at 7:01 am
“I hope he’ll never do it again though because, just as soon as he did… all these jealous LOOOZERS started posting their chat transcript asking Mehow to help their PATHETIC situations.”
So BD, my game is better than yours? My girl responds to me still, we’ve been chatting since the intial exchange. If you have even mediocre game, you should be able to get responses. At good game, you should be able to get meet-ups, and when you have tight game, you should be getting sexual.
I’m trying to get my skill set tighter instead of pretending I’m the ultimate ladies man, and I’m still better than you. Now what does that say about BDs game if he can’t even step up to my level?
NoMan,
Because only men who compensate call themselves “Big”.
January 13th, 2009 at 7:12 am
Wow! I just discovered this archival footage of the guy who was ‘big daddy’ before there ever was Big Daddy.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9UaDbVbQTrM&NR=1
A pre-Big Daddy!
Who’d a thunk?
Big Daddy
The Greatest Ladies Man on Earth
January 13th, 2009 at 7:51 am
U know Bid D………
Maybe Mehow’s advice wasnt wrong dude. Know one knows what happened while you open a and was speaking to her in person. Maybe it wasnt on like you thought. Maybe your “essence” of Big Daddy did not hypnotize her. Or Maybe your assembly line was disorganized. Know one will know unless you have footage of the pick up. My guess is that the your game just wasnt tight enough bro. She was being nice to you bro by talking to you and giving you her contacts…… yea your close bro was flaky… So It wasnt Mehow, It was probably you. No worries kiddo, just go back to the drawing board. U might need to work on your A1…………….
Hmmmmmmmmmm……. ” The Greatest ladies man on Earth” getting Myspace closes??????????……………… What ever Happened to getting out of the House?
January 13th, 2009 at 7:55 am
YOU GUYS ARE SOME FUNNY BUNCH OF BLOGGERS
I HOPE MOST OF THE REGULARS…..ESPECIALLY THE ONES THAT TALK SO MUCH SHIT…..COME TO VEGAS……SHOULD BE FUN
WHO’S GOING?
Neo
“Don’t leave your girl rounnd me, tru player for real, ask my ni**a Pharrell”
January 13th, 2009 at 8:08 am
MEHOW SAID – ” Me: “No really … it’s unfortunate you are a foot shorter than me cause it will reach that high.” ”
i dont understand this comment it makes no sense, please explain.
January 13th, 2009 at 9:02 am
Folks…
If you’ll allow me to take a short break from jerking Big Daddy off before our very eyes, allow Big Daddy – the Greatest Ladies-Boy Man on Earth to break down a few things.
Mehow’s was gracious enough to offer me some advice on how to approach my Myspace friend.
I hope he’ll do it again though because, just as soon as he did… all these people realized that Big Daddy was a LOOOZER for posting his chat transcript asking Mehow to help his PATHETIC situations. haha. Fortunately I think Mehow is smart enough NOT to fall into that trap again.
Unfortunately however Mehow’s advice was a TOTAL.FAIL for Big Daddy to execute.
She has never responded to LOOOZER Big Daddy.
And no, it wasn’t because I said haha or signed it xxoo. I’ve done the same in convos with her before and she never replied then either
Sheesh, when you get that superstitious, you might as well blame her unresponsiveness to me not using my LUCKY butt plug. haha.
As a side note, this IS the kind of reasoning these LAME BRAINED wannabe PUA’s like Big Daddy use, you know.
Big Daddy says to himself after a night of UTTER failure in the clubs -
“If only I’d approached at a 37 degree angle instead of a 33 degree, she would have been mine.”
“Darn! I know she would have given me the digits if I’d made that last statement 2/1000ths of a second slower.
haha
NO, it was just bad Big Daddy advice.
Now, I don’t know what would have been good advice, which is why I asked Mehow, so I’m pointing fingers at everyone but Big Daddy.
But the proof is in the pudding. NO response means NO Nooky means NOT a good response using Big Daddy Method.
Online gaming is not new to me. I have too use it since I bring such an OVERWHELMINGLY DOUCHE BAG PRESENCE to real life game, but for the benefit of those poor ladies overseas and in in other parts of the country who have yet to DRINK DEEP OF Big Daddy’s Essence, I WOULD like to learn a few things…so they know how much of a douche bag Big Daddy is.
Now, as for my buddy Hypnotica… who Big Daddy envies beyond all
Here’s the general rule: If a girl you just met uses the word pussy (in reference to her own) and fuck in the first 5 minutes of chatting with her…she WILL diss Big Daddy that night. Probably more than once! haha
In the Midwest, the day before Thanksgiving is the BIGGEST party day of the year – bigger than even NYEve and St. Pat’s. Big Daddy loves to pound the Turkey over Chicken anyday!
Big Daddy met a couple girls that night who, within the first 3 minutes used the expression ‘pubic hair’ and ‘lezbos’ all without ANY Big Daddy prompting in an effort to psuh Big Daddy away.
That’s ALL Big Daddy needed to hear. Whooooooooo!!! Big Daddy was gone to the mens room to pull like George Michael.
To be fair, I’d been scarring off a couple other chicks prior, so I was already all Big Daddy’s up! haha
Let’s put it this way, if a girl starts talking like that when you JUST met her…you ought to retire from picking up chicks if you can’t close that deal!
So, bottom line, I’m looking forward to hearing more from Mehow, but in some cases – like the one cited in the transcript – the girls are already good to go…
Big Daddy
The Greatests Ladies-Boy Man on Earth
January 13th, 2009 at 10:21 am
Yo Mehow … it’s Big Daddy I need some more of your advice.
I have been working on my dance floor game and I want to know what you think.
Here is some Infield footage Big Daddy style .. yea
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FeI676cNBXA
Let’s see you other chumps keep up wit this. Big Daddy is soo tight he’ll be stealing the show on the dance floor!
Big Daddy
The Greatest Ladies-Boy Man on Earth
January 13th, 2009 at 10:36 am
hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhh
he’ll definately be getting all the girls with those moves lmfao
January 13th, 2009 at 11:58 am
FYI,
Big Daddy copyrighted the name of that phenomena he discovered as enumerated above.
They’re called FEM-Bedded™ Commands
Whoooooooooo!!
Big Daddy
The Greatest Ladies Man on Earth
The Smartest too…
January 13th, 2009 at 3:36 pm
Don’t feed the trolls, y’all.
January 13th, 2009 at 6:28 pm
“Don’t feed the trolls, y’all.”
Dear Brain Surgeon,
If you’re speaking of me, you might want to REBUKE Mehow himself, as he answers my questions.
haha
Big Daddy
The Best there is at this game…
January 14th, 2009 at 3:30 am
Mehow,
quick question about 10SSA…
do you give many SOIs in your new system, or do you still play a lot with ambiguity?
In the excerpt above I see Hypnotica giving strong statements of intent…
January 14th, 2009 at 8:33 am
Here’s a pic of my buddy Hypnotica and his girlfriend.
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v80/BigDaddy777/Z-17.jpg?t=1231879001
As you can see, unlike Mystery, Hypnotica does NOT rely on his looks to pick up girls.
However, seeing this pic, I can understand why he now prefers girls that brush 3 x Day.
haha
Big Daddy
The Greatest Ladies Man on Earth
PS Before you wusses/looozers/Big Daddy-Haters start whining about how mean I am to Hypnotica, allow Big Daddy to break it down…
I agree with Mehow that Hypnotica probably has more USEFUL game than just about any other KNOWN pick up artist out there. Like I said, Mystery – for all his great contributions, would NOT have anywhere near the success he’s had if not for his looks which chicks inexplicably like. Same of course with Matador. Big Daddy looks good too, but has learned that will get you only SO far. Ultimately, all you really need is to look good ENOUGH.
Hypnotica’s game is what I call a Modified Pimp Model.
Years ago, Big Daddy studied all the great PIMPS to learn how they run their game. These cretinous creatures are not to be admired or emulated. They are exceeded on the creepy/nasty/lowlife scale ONLY by Big Daddy-Haters haha.
But Pimps DO know a lot about controlling women. Especially LSE women which it appears that Hypnotica specializes in. And let’s face it, there’s a LOT of LSE women out there!
What Hypnotica seems to have done is extract the basic associative elements of the Pimp’s game – the claim to authority, the inherent presumption of the protector role & a general sense of masculine superiority and translated it in such a way that it appeals to your average LSE bar chick.
Basically Hypnotica is a pimp minus the wire coat hangers and a $300/day drug habit. haha
I do like to read Hypnotica transcripts and, since I work on almost an exclusively NON-verbal level (which is WHY Big Daddy is SO devastatingly potent in the field), I often embody the words he speaks. Nonetheless, it doesn’t hurt my game to utter an occasional expression consistent with Hynotica’s commands now and then either.
I just hope he’s figured out a way to hypnotize his girls so they don’t feel any pain when they’re sitting in the Dentist’s Chair. haha
January 14th, 2009 at 9:23 am
Last night, while stalking behind a car, I pulled out a picture of my homoerotic fixation, Hypnotica. Of course he was with a woman, while I was playing with myself. Fortunately, a trench coat in winter hides all! HAHAHAHA!
PS Before you wusses/looozers/Big Daddy-Haters start whining about how I shouldn’t masturbate to pictures of Hypnotica, allow me to break it down…
I agree with Mehow that Hypnotica probably has more USEFUL game than just about any other KNOWN pick up artist out there. I don’t practice any game, but from online reading and failing at myspace and in the real world, I know this stuff is potent. Big Daddy would put some of his own pictures up, but the women run too fast from him for the flash to capture. HAHAHA!
When Big Daddy looks at himself in the MIRROR while frapping, he looks good. But Big Daddy has learned you can only entertain yourself so often. So, he has found a new model to frap himself too. No one can lick balls like Big Daddy. HAHAHAHA!
Years ago, when Big Daddy was a bitch and getting smacked around by real pimps, he learned how they run their game. They take all of Big Daddy’s money, two dollars a blow, and tell HIM to get off the street. They said BIG DADDY was scaring away all the customers. Little DID THEY KNOW that Big Daddy had to keep restiching his pants because the knees were wearing thin on his jeans.
Pimps DO know how to control a bitch, which was why Big Daddy can now suck start a hoover. Especially LSE girls like me, who will take up to four fingers without LUBRICATION. What HYPNOTICA has done that draws me so near to him is he has taken the elements of how Pimp’s used to beat me down, and used it to his own GAME. That makes BIG DADDY massively attracted to him, so now he stalks Hypnotica and his Girlfriend. Obviously, if BIG DADDY had his own, he wouldn’t waste time with that. BUT SINCE Big Daddy can’t even pull a Myspace chick, his odds with real women get even lower.
I do like to read Hypnotica transcripts because it helps me hear how he would talk to me while smacking me around. And since I suck dick on an exclusively NON-verbal level (which is WHY Big Daddy is SO devastatingly potent with the cock), I often embody the words he speaks as junkies slide their malnourished hands up my body to grab the non-functional third appendage. Face it, I haven’t been LAID SINCE candy cost a nickel. HAHAHAHA.
I just wished he could figure out a way to hypnotize me so I wouldn’t feel the pain of no lubrication. I can’t even sit in a dentist chair because of the BLEEDING HOLE that froths beneath my pants. And that’s more JEAN REPAIR that Big Daddy has to do for his clients.
HAHAHAHA!
January 14th, 2009 at 9:52 am
hahahahahahahahaha hahahahahahahah
To the comment above lmfao bro………………. ha hah hahaha ahah ahhah ahah
haha haha hha
But seriously though what kind of sadistic fiend, goes searching for Hypnotica on Photobucket. that fucking crazy dude haha…………. some one has too much time on their hands.
January 14th, 2009 at 10:20 am
Hot girls gotta say. Your lucky I wasnt around you I would have totally Blown you out.
January 14th, 2009 at 10:22 am
I mean I would have totally scooped up that hypnotica girl
January 14th, 2009 at 10:30 am
U know What guys the one thing Ive learned about this community is that, there will be people that are so frustrated behind it all, and will put up this front about them being ” the greates ladies men on earth. Those Chodes will have nothing to show for it either. I love how this community, at least whats good in it can do for your life, also the great girls that you meet along the way that will literaly do anything for you.
So too all the wannabe “Great ladies men” on this blog put up or shut the fuck up.
Mehow Im ready to be on an insider. Promise! lmao
Sarge On… to my real guys trying to build a life. Im with most of you.
Neo- NY’s Finest
January 14th, 2009 at 10:31 am
U know What guys the one thing Ive learned about this community is that, there will be people that are so frustrated behind it all, and will put up this front about them being ” the greates ladies men on earth. Those Chodes will have nothing to show for it either. I love how this community, at least whats good in it can do for your life, also the great girls that you meet along the way that will literaly do anything for you.
So too all the wannabe “Great ladies men” on this blog put up or shut the fuck up.
Mehow Im ready to be on an insider. Promise! lmao
O yea heres me putting up. ha ha… This is why Im the One
Sarge On… to my real guys trying to build a life. Im with most of you.
Neo- NY’s Finest
January 14th, 2009 at 10:41 am
http://s56.photobucket.com/albums/g197/dacomeupkid418/?action=view¤t=sol2.jpg
January 14th, 2009 at 10:42 am
Look …
Big Daddy is sick of all the IMMITATORS, please stop it!!!
I just can’t take your weak immitations. Big Daddy thinks he has the best game in town
and it just hurts too much to be mocked by immitations.
Please leave Big Daddy alone.
Big Daddy
The Greatest Ladies Man on Earth
January 14th, 2009 at 10:59 am
http://i56.photobucket.com/albums/g197/dacomeupkid418/group066.jpg
January 14th, 2009 at 11:00 am
http://i56.photobucket.com/albums/g197/dacomeupkid418/group078.jpg
January 14th, 2009 at 11:00 am
http://i56.photobucket.com/albums/g197/dacomeupkid418/group065.jpg
January 14th, 2009 at 11:03 am
http://i56.photobucket.com/albums/g197/dacomeupkid418/group055.jpg
January 14th, 2009 at 11:16 am
So heres a thought…… Instead of All the “wannabe greatest ladies men” that talk about their unproven systems and have no track record in this Game
Instead of stalking other Guys and checking for their girls…… Why don’t you go find your own.
” Talk is cheap,…. but proof is in the pudding”
To all my real guys that are out to build a life and not compete against other guys for what kind of girls they’re getting. Real recognizes real.
So Big lil Daddy Fuck you and your bullshit ass method. I’ll piss on your assembly line.
Neo
“been seeing the matrix, since age 12″
January 14th, 2009 at 11:25 am
Has anyone actually received their copies of 10SSA yet?
Has anyone acutally got a tracking number from support?
Thanks
January 14th, 2009 at 11:26 am
O yea and to Johnny…. whos probably sleeping in his hole right now. After Shutting your butt buddy Big Little Daddy up.. for a while. Thei next time you post a pic or video up of a pick up. How about putting up something clear that we can all c.
like this
http://i56.photobucket.com/albums/g197/dacomeupkid418/aodakidpics102.jpg
Im done for now.. maybe retiring PUA blogging.
Neo
C U in da Field…. sike…You’ll be wacking off to the pic.
January 14th, 2009 at 12:45 pm
Neo Forgot to put up this video from one of his possibly greatest moments…
http://splicd.com/v19PpD5uqL0/8/15
haha
Big Daddy
The Greatest Ladies Man on Earth
PS Even my immitators are having immitators! That’s a sign of TRUE greatness. My last post was at 8:33 am
January 14th, 2009 at 1:18 pm
Cute HB’s Bro………….. I get hotter girls than that though!
Hey Big Daddy…. dute- but don’t be a hater… your Afc days should have been left behind you
January 14th, 2009 at 1:20 pm
I definately agree With Afc Allan…… you could post a vid of a full close 3some and hell have some stupid shit to say.
Im with you Neo on urinating on this clown Big Daddy’s Assembly line
January 14th, 2009 at 1:24 pm
Since I’ve been so…er…warmly welcomed in this august blog, I’ll throw all the Big Daddy-Haters another bone. And trust me, this is the first time the expression ‘Big Daddy Haters’ and ‘bone’ have EVER been used in the same sentence. haha
Hypnotica does a version of this, you can see it in the transcript at the end when (I’m guessing, cause it’s cut off in Mehow’s Blog Entry) he transitions from the topic of the girl brushing her teeth 3 x a Day to kissing her.
That’s cool. But, how many times do you have a girl bragging about how many times a day she brushes? And, unless you’re a CLUELESS Big Daddy-Hater, you certainly aren’t going to ask ‘So…how many times a day DO you brush?’ haha
Well, thanks to Big Daddy, there’s a workaround for this situation.
Keep in mind, this will NOT work for those No-Nooky getting Big Daddy-Haters STUCK in the etherworld of texting girls because the chick understandably does not want to be in the same zip code much less airspace as them. haha
For the rest of you, after you start engaging a girl and you begin to get a little simpatico going on, pull out a CINNAMON FIRE JOLLY RANCHER CANDY -http://us.st12.yimg.com/us.st.yimg.com/I/candywarehouse_2036_46979899 and put it in YOUR mouth.
Now, Big Daddy has extensively field tested this technique. This is the type of candy that works best. I’ve tried different flavors, cinnamon discs, cinnamon gum etc but, for some reason, Jolly Rancher is the most effective. Believe it or not, some girls don’t chew gum! Cinnamon flavor in general gets BY FAR the best results and Jolly Rancher has some inexplicable cachet to it. Don’t know why. Don’t care. Just after results.
Anyway, sometimes she’ll just say ‘Give me one, too!’ or ‘Do I need one…Is my breath bad?’ or whatever depending I guess on her LSE vs HSE or maybe what she had for dinner earlier. haha
But, even if she doesn’t ask for one, simply say “These are the best! Jolly Ranchers Cinnamon. I always have some because at clubs like this, when you’re dancing & talking so close, it’s good to have it on hand. Want one?”
I RARELY have any girl turn it down at that point. Of course, as I’m sure you can imagine, Big Daddy is the MASTER of calibration.
Anyway, once she’s sucking on it, she’ll usually comment on how it makes her breath feel and then just say “Let’s see…” or something equivalent. (I think Hypnotica says “Hold on, we’ll check it…”) I have a bunch of different ways to go at that point, but they all lead to kissing.
I call these Big Daddy’s Deep-Throat Lozenges™
because, if you play it right, that’s the Net-Net.
NO, Big Daddy-Haters. Not you doing it to another guy!
She does it to…never mind! haha
Another tried and tested Shortcut to Love™. More SOLID VALUE.
Courtesy of…
Big Daddy
The Greatest Ladies Man on Earth
Nuff said…
January 14th, 2009 at 1:44 pm
Ahhhhh ….
The Big Daddy IMMITATOR won’t stop .. please STOP.
Big Daddy is begging you to stop tarnishing his hard worked for name.
It is tainting the Big Daddy reputation.
Big Daddy just NEEDS to be loved by all. Big Daddy NEEDS your approval.
Please, please stop mocking the The Greatest Ladies Man on Earth™.
Big Daddy
The Greatest Ladies Man on Earth
Never done talking about himself…
January 14th, 2009 at 1:45 pm
WoW………….. so much value.
“You so r the greatest ladies man….in your bedroom” wheeeeeeeeeeewwwww
I got a question for You Big Daddy, R u going to be in Vegas for the Superconference to show us your awesome skill-set?
January 14th, 2009 at 1:53 pm
“Big Daddy, R u going to be in Vegas for the Superconference?”
I’ve already proffered for acceptance a proposal that Mehow pay Big Daddy $250K for a 2-Day Personal Appearance.
I’ll even pay for my own round-the-clock security.
Heck, I’ve sooo ENRAGED these no-game-having, no nookie-getting, baby-please-pose-for-this-picture-with-me-then-I-SWEAR-I’ll-quit-bothering-you Big Daddy-Haters, he could break even the first day on just the Big Daddy Dunk Tank™
haha
Big Daddy
Yeah…he’s that good
January 14th, 2009 at 2:07 pm
hahahahahahahahahaha 250 k lmfao
hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha Round the clock security
Yo Big Daddy Your a funny fuck man. Thats the funniest thing Ive heared on this Blog.
lmfao
cut big d a break. Guys….. hillarious.
January 14th, 2009 at 2:25 pm
“Yo Big Daddy… Thats the funniest thing I’ve heared on this Blog.”
Thanks for the props, man. I appreciate it.
But, at least in my view, that’s not even the funniest thing I posted TODAY.
I’m partial to this line…
“I just hope Hypnotica’s figured out a way to hypnotize his girls so they don’t feel any pain when they’re sitting in the Dentist’s Chair!”
haha
Big Daddy
The Best period.
Nice to see some of you are finally starting to get it…
January 14th, 2009 at 3:40 pm
So Big Daddy
I c ur all about giving value……….. and your the”greatest ladies man ever”
Than why don’t you post some pics or how about a pickup?
I mean…I’ll agree with one of the other posts “Talk is Cheap”
January 14th, 2009 at 4:22 pm
You guys wanted to bring the Big Daddy guns out, here it goes. The “Greatest” ladies man of all time at work…. haha
check me out
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KXMv9xaIp1s
Big Daddy
The Big Daddy Method
Nuff said haters
January 14th, 2009 at 8:21 pm
“This blog is starting to really suck..Almost as much as Mehow’s customer service. Whts with the trolling”
Haha thats funny!!
January 14th, 2009 at 8:47 pm
Mehow and Fuji, what the hell happened to this Blog Comment Section???
January 14th, 2009 at 9:56 pm
” What the hell happened to this Blog Comment Section???”
It’s called Chopping Game, son.
What do you want? Sixty five posts all WHINING – Mehow ,,,Where is my 10ssa system?? You promised it yesterday! Waaaaah!
Big Daddy
Premium Content
Free of Charge from
The Greatest Ladies Man on Earth…
January 15th, 2009 at 6:56 am
The posts by BD, minus the flame posts, are crapping up the forum. People with customer service issues are not alone, I’m trying to get my copy of the 10ssa too. Guess that’s the downside to a hit product.
Hey Neo, if you do Vegas, I’ll sarge with you there. Maybe Mehow will let us borrow one of his fancy cameras.
Should be a fun time regardless.
January 15th, 2009 at 9:33 am
“So Big Daddy… why don’t you post some pics ?”
Pics???
You’re kidding, right?
I’ve ALREADY attracted a group of ENRAGED stalkers by just POSTING in here. Can you imagine if these LOOOOOZERS saw what I looked like so they could track me down? They’d be sifting through the trash in my dumpster as we speak… haha
Actually most of the Big Daddy-Haters in here are harmless. Toothless Tigers is what I call them.
Think about it – NoMan…Powernewb…& Neo.
They’re either pushing their 40’s or pounding them down. haha
Actually, I think some of these guys said they were almost FIFTY. Now that’s weird.
I mean these guys were alive during the Free Love Generation.
MEMO: If you couldn’t get laid back then, don’t count on it now! haha
I’m sure Mehow doesn’t care. The old dudes are probably the only ones willing
to drop 4 small for some magic soundbites.
I call them Gaming Grandpas™
They can’t get no nooky, but I guess it makes them feel young just to try.
Oh well, with all apologies to Shakespeare:
Age In –> Wit Out.
haha
Listen fellas…there’s a REASON Depends doesn’t make Thongs. Think about it. haha
Big Daddy
Face it – I’m Better than Y’all…
January 15th, 2009 at 10:38 am
Hey Mehow props for your line up of speakers for the superconference.
Having Sinn, Hypnotica and Lovedrop as guests at the same conference is a TON of value!!
I can’t think of anyone who has had such quality speakers ever…
January 15th, 2009 at 10:41 am
I can’t make it to the conference…will the guest speakers also be on the DVDs?
January 15th, 2009 at 11:01 am
O.K. Mehow & Vault, the SuperConference line-up you just announced in the email makes up for any of the delays in shipping 10SSA.
Can’t wait for this!
January 15th, 2009 at 11:57 am
“Actually most of the Big Daddy-Haters in here are harmless. Toothless Tigers is what I call them.”
Well then Billy Badass, here’s your challenge. Pick your venue of fighting, MMA, Boxing, San Shou, or Muay Thai. We’ll both sign a 1000 dollar agreement if we don’t show, we forfeit the money.
After the fight, you can see your proctologist to get ointment for whichever hole hurts the most. The next day, I’ll go on Infield against you at the club of your choosing. That’s right, you and your entire ASSembly line against little old me.
Now you up for a challenge pussyboy?
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January 15th, 2009 at 12:46 pm
@ BD: “Actually most of the Big Daddy-Haters in here are harmless. Toothless Tigers is what I call them.”
your a Funny guy.
LMAO, You know BD, I think you’ve been cock slapped one too many times…. I bet your jokes are as funny as your face. It would probably be funnier once NoMan lights yo ass up with the knuckles
No more Choding Chumps Please
Neo
January 15th, 2009 at 12:50 pm
@ NoMan
Yo Vegas should be fun… If the conference doesn’t interfere with me,spring break in Panama City…. I should be making an appearence, so let’s Sarge on. Vegas is always an experience. lol
Neo
January 15th, 2009 at 1:41 pm
“OK Big Daddy! Here’s your challenge!! Pick your venue…MMA, Boxing, San Shou, or Muay Thai.”
Say what??
Is this a fight…
… or a Day 2 at a Chinese Restaurant?
Big Daddy
Yes…give me the #7 with white rice and wonton soup…
January 15th, 2009 at 1:49 pm
“OK Big Daddy! Here’s your challenge!! Pick your venue…MMA, Boxing, San Shou, or Muay Thai.”
Say what??
Is this a fight…
… or a Day 2 at a Chinese Restaurant?
Big Daddy
Yes…give me the #7 with white rice and wonton soup…
“classic” lmao
January 15th, 2009 at 3:45 pm
My Bitch Says:
“Is this a fight…
… or a Day 2 at a Chinese Restaurant?”
Just wanted to know if you were as much a failure as a man as you are with the ladies.
From now on, your name is “Bitch Daddy”. You have to piss sitting down and refer to all men as “daddy”, which is where you get your namesake.
January 15th, 2009 at 3:54 pm
“My Bitch”
“You are as much a failure as a man as you are with the ladies.”
“From now on, your name is “Bitch Daddy”
“You have to piss sitting down ”
“You refer to all men as “daddy”
Wow! If this were a fight, it would have already been STOPPED by the referee!
haha
Big Daddy
That was easy…
January 15th, 2009 at 8:34 pm
Well Ladies,
Big Daddy has descended down to give you some insights in what it takes to be what I am – The Greatest Ladies Man on Earth.
I appreciate my time on this blog and will generally be interested in Mehow’s contributions because I think he is on the cutting edge of what the so-called PU community is doing. Let’s face it, Mystery is too creepy and Hypnotica too much of a bully.
I’ve learned some things while here.
And no, not only just how easy it is to, DECIMATE, TORMENT and HUMILIATE Big Daddy-Haters with just a few strokes of the keyboard. haha
That bores me now anyway. Talk about cheap thrills!.
I think what my interactions here have caused me to do is really SEEK OUT what it is that has made me the GREATEST LADIES MAN ON EARTH.
And today, I finally had a breakthrough. More of a confirmation really, as I’d kind of known most of this all along.
It doesn’t mean I’ll never have any more challenges with women.
Remember, just because you KNOW something, don’t think it means you’ll EXECUTE properly.
And this stuff is FAR more art than science anyway.
And it doesn’t mean I can get any girl at any time under any circumstances. That’s a myth AFC’s labor under that has no basis in reality.
It simply means that Big Daddy GETS IT.
He can attract and get with TONS of hot beautiful women in the age group he wants – 18 thru 22. And beyond as well!
That was my goal. It’s mission accomplished.
There are really just THREE KEY ELEMENTS needed of the average guy to be able to accomplish this.
And NO, none of them involve magic words, neg hits or sexually explicit soundbites – even though they are all interesting tidbits and have their place in my game now and then.
No, the THREE ESSENTIAL ELEMENTS ARE ALL NON-VERBAL.
And, if you do it right, girls are just drawn to you wherever you go.
You get to decide what to do with that magnetic appeal.
Big Daddy has got it. And is very grateful for the discovery. Hallelujah!
So, I bid you adieu….I have made it to the top of the mountaintop.
I’ve succeeded beyond my wildest dreams.
I actually KNOW what you guys are scrambling around like Keystone Cops trying to discover.
And I think I’m gonna keep it a secret.
Heck, why not?
More chicks for…
Big Daddy
TheGreatestLadiesManOnEarth
Whooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!
January 16th, 2009 at 7:20 am
>Kate, thanks for your honest input, it’s really valuable.
Anytime. I’m glad to help because I believe that men and women would
get along much better if there were a greater mutual understanding.
>
>One question, for all the guys as well as for you. My experience is,
>if you ask a woman “which do you prefer, casual sex or LTR”, they
>will almost ALWAYS say LTR.
It also depends on how you elicit the answer. try telling a story
about your life or one of your friends, even a hypothetical one, that
centers around these issues. It could go something like…..
Welll, my friend likes this girl but he’s just over something, or is
going away to school, etc and wants to be with her, but can’t promise
a LTR……..see her reactions, pick up on her attitudes. Does she
empathize with both people? Just the man, just the woman? What does
this say about her and her experience? Ask if she’s ever had any LTRs
and what she thinks. I decided after my 3rd LTR (in 6 years) that I
was SICK of dealing with personalities and feelings and I just wanted
to get laid…so I did, and it was really fun. It also put me in the
right frame of mid to recognize someone who WAS worthy of my time and
concern, and now I’m married to him. Also, once she reveals her
opinions, tease the sources out of her. Did shge have a religious
ubrining? Is she from a one parent family?…etc.
You might be surprised at the number of women who want sex without
strings. The problem is, most guys egotistically assume that a woman
who would sleep with them would AUTOMATICALLY want to include them in
her life, which isn’t always true. I’m honest when i tell you I
wouldn’t be seen in public with half the guys I’ve been with in my
life….but they ALL assumed I wanted LTR. (Ha! They’d be kicking
themselves now if they realized how well things turned out for me in
all arenas.) Women fear that a guy they sleep with will not have the
ego strength to handle casual sex and friendship with them.
I don’t think this necessarily reflects
>reality, but is the “safe” answer for a woman to give, in a number of
>ways. She doesn’t want to come off sounding like a slut,
The fucking bullshit term I rally against constatly.
I’m proud to have experienced all I have before marriage.
I always could make as much or more money than my male counterparts so
FUCK THEM! Who cares what my reputation is?
Anyhow, if you assure her in some way that you have no problem with
experienced women you’lll probably score points.
and if she
>doesn’t know a guy pretty well already, she’s probably afraid that if
>she said “I’m all for casual sex”, he would say “well let’s go then!”
There has to be some measure of sensetivity. Women probably wouldn’t
fuck a guy they wouldn’t be friends with most of the time, so its
important to remember that sex does cause many women to desire bonding
on some level. Bonding is pretty open to interpretation though. its
not necessarily LTR.
>You call this ‘arrogance’… when the truth is… it is how men in this
>society have been trained to think… *by women*. We hear all the time
>about the guys that ‘love ‘em and leave ‘em’… any man who is concerned
>about this deserves credit and support… not chastisement. I am one of
>these men. While I may accept something temporary… I am always
>searching for something permanent.
>
>To be quite honest… I found your *reply* to be arrogant.
I can see why you would, but allow me to explain why love em’ and
leave em’ is so frustrating to women. Sometimes when the sex is really
good the women would like to have the choice to continue having sex
insetead of having the guy remove it because he assumes she
automatically wants a LTR. I actually asked a guy about this one time.
He said “Because if you sleep with her more than once its a
relationship.” I had to laugh…it just seemed so ridiculous.
I suppose any man who is genuinely concerned about a woman’s feelings
will try to find out what she does want before dumping her as a human
being.
>Perhaps what some guys are experiencing is the assumption of monogamy,
>not necessarily the assumption of an LTR. Expectations of monogamy,
>to me, feel very much like expectations of an LTR. Aside from health
>concerns (which are, of course, very important), I feel it’s perfectly
>fine for both parties in a sexual relationship to sleep with anyone
>they want to — hopefully there’ll be open communication on the subject,
>yes, but I don’t appreciate a woman who says she’s not looking for an
>LTR taking exception (on emotional, rather than health, grounds) to my
>wanting to sleep with other women. I don’t put those restrictions on
>women — why do they expect it of me?
The truth is , Tim, most women are frustrated by thier biology.
Intellectually a certain # of women do accept the ideas you’ve
discussed above, but then they actually have sex and suddenly bonding
hormones interfere with free ideals.
I think though, that if women thought it was OK to sleep with a few
different people at a time this wouldn’t be such a problem.
I have a good friend who was really wacky and free in her 20s…you
know, would just sleep with everyone and we’d applaud her. The problem
for her is that now she doesn’t know how to reconcile no-holds-barred
sex and desire with common sense choices. She says she wants to get
serious with someone but continues screwing drug dealers with pregnant
girlfriends. My point is, she says that these little side trysts mean
nothing to her yet she gets depressed each time she has one.
This is no irrational woman. She’s a highly paid scientist and excells
in her field. In any case, I make no judgement. If I were single
though, I would definitely not see or sleep with just one man at a
time, most likely.
January 16th, 2009 at 3:19 pm
This chick sounds wacko.
January 17th, 2009 at 4:41 am
Superior, where in the World did that thread come from?
“It also depends on how you elicit the answer. try telling a story about your life or one of your friends, even a hypothetical one, that centers around these issues.”
I usually elicit this by finding out if they have other “boyfriends”. If they do, I’ll remark, “Most women have two boyfriends. One that spends money on them, one that they have fun with. Which is he?” The answer usually tells me what they’re looking for. It’s been my experience that single women that do not have a boyfriend, regardless of what they say, cannot handle a true situation where someone conveys sexual interest exclusively. You get pigeonholed into “Lover/Provider” category and if you just convey sexual interest, they LMR. Kate (?), your advice is to out-logic most women, which is easy. It just doesn’t work.
The easiest way to deal with this from my experience though is don’t even broach the subject until after sex. Anything prior to that is just shooting yourself in the foot and setting yourself up for bad situations. As one club player told me about what to tell women looking for relationships: “Lie, lie, lie, and then DENY!” The best rule that I’ve found to work is from someone I don’t remember but you have the rules:
1.) I will not be the only man in your life.
2.) You will not be the only woman in my life.
My add-on:
3.) The other guy can’t be a douchebag.
Saves a lot of heartache, grief, attachments, etc. if a woman has someone else to go to if things don’t work out. Another thing is that women tend to figure out almost everything subconsciously, which is why out-logicing her just doesn’t work. If you see a woman three times a week, even if it’s just for sex, they tend to assume LTR. Just see her during the weekdays, don’t see her on weekends, and don’t see her too often, all made easier if both of you have someone else to bang on the off-time. She’ll automatically assume what you want out of the relationship is just sex, and you won’t see each other enough to have to deal with too much emotional baggage.
And don’t let her start playing Risk either. She’ll move pieces of her stuff into your house one by one until she starts having to come over more often to get things. It’s a trap. If you start noticing too much of her junk is in the house, start giving it to her.
” Sometimes when the sex is really
good the women would like to have the choice to continue having sex
insetead of having the guy remove it because he assumes she
automatically wants a LTR.”
I’ve rarely heard of that happening with any women. More often when “fuck & chuck” syndrome arises, the guy will pretend to be interested in being the woman’s boyfriend and then disappear off. “Vampire sex” is a term I heard another woman use, (vanishes at sunrise).
‘He said “Because if you sleep with her more than once its a
relationship.” I had to laugh…it just seemed so ridiculous.’
Not very ridiculous. What most guys do is fuck a woman four nights in a row. Most women assume it’s a guy looking for a relationship at that point. Bonding hormones surface, she tells her friends about him, and then…. he disappears. The hit-it-and-quit-it approach, while not savvy, does avoid some other problems. Besides, sometimes a chick sucks in bed or has a vagina that feels like a warm cup of water.
January 19th, 2009 at 12:49 pm
Support actually contacted me to ask if I recieved the thing yet. That’s a good sign they are trying to take care of me. Still nothing so far though. Apparently, if roughly two weeks should do it it should be here in like, two more days, max.
I didn’t even realise it contained lifestyle advice until the free audio clips either. That’s pretty cool.
“You have no idea what you just started… I’m going to beat you about the head with my cock.”
That’s hilarious. Totally awesome.
This shit is insane!
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