In this blog I am going to tell you one of the keys to my initial and fast success in the game.  I now can look back and explain why it worked.  So, I thought I would share it with you.

A breakthrough is, when you have one of those moments when your mind connects two previously viscerally unconnected concepts.  It’s like when you read a PU book and then you go out in field and you SEE IT HAPPEN.   Something ‘clicks’ at that point and you have another solid piece of knowledge in your brain. The point where it all makes sense.

Or you just come up with a cool new phrase, material, subcommunication in field.  It just seems to happen. *CLICK*

When you feel that click its like your body learning something intuitively.  So know you should be able to apply whatever ‘clicked’ without having to think about it consciously, as much. It becomes more of a habit or something that you can just do.

Well, things never ‘just happen.’ You have to work at it, gain knowledge about it.

The ‘just happening’ is a product of the working of your subconscious mind melding two things: information and application.

You get the information from reading and other forms of learning.

You apply it by going out in field and putting into practice.

Now this only work to accomplish breakthroughs and inventions when you put the two together.

The breakthroughs and inventions may ‘click’ when you are thinking about them later, but they won’t happen much at all if there wasn’t application occurring at some point. No application, no breakthrough.

Also, great inventions and breakthroughs never occur in a vacuum.  There is always information available and ultimately in some way everything you think is derivative of something else you learned.  Your subconscious mind has to have the elements inside your head to fuse together something new and unique.  No information, no breakthrough.

Everybody knows that keyboard jockeys don’t get good because of the principles I’m listing here.

But here is another little known fact.

If you just go out all the time and never read or learn or acquire more information you will stagnate because you are not gaining the information that’s needed.

I have seen multiple examples of ‘mosses style sarge mania’ where guys go out in field 30 days in a row and such.  They only make good progress if they are also acquiring new information and trying out new things.  Everybody that has been in the community knows that one guy who goes out all the time but doesn’t make loads of progress.

You can get some information from the field, but that is not the field’s strength.  The strength of the field is to provide the application medium whereby you can catalyze new intuitive understanding.  Trying to get plain data from the field would entail necessarily having to go through what I went through to get my level of knowledge.   There are much more efficient ways.

So, what ‘s the bottom line?

1. Always be Sarging
2. Always be Reading

I did this a ton and still do it all the time.

Every week make sure you are reading, listening, learning SOMETHING VALUABLE about PU and then apply that stuff over the weekend.

I had a very religious schedule back when I was learning.  During the week I would always inhale new information and then on the weekends I would always have a plan for trying something new.  Sometimes the information I read had nothing to do with the plan for the weekend but because it was in my head I would have breakthroughs that I didn’t plan on (which are the best kind, really – nothing like going out and being hit by a busload of value that comes from inside your own head!).
-m

P.S.: So go get my book if you haven’t already (http://www.mehowgetthegirl.com/) there is enough content in there to keep you progressing rapidly for a few months.  By the time you are done I will have new information for you!  Also this blog, my newsletters, and forum and other products are chock full of valuable information.  I spend hours every day making sure you guys have loads of valuable free resources.  I’m obsessed with it.

P.P.S.: Other stuff on my reading list that is still totally good today in no particular order:

-”Cocky Comedy” from David DeAngelo.
-The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle (key, key, key!!!!) – You have to be ‘in the now’ for the breakthroughs to come.  This book tells you how to be in the now.
-”The Mystery Method” by Lovedrop and Mystery.
-The “Sexual Key” by JD Fuentes
-Swinggcats “Real World Seduction.”
-TD’s post archive as compiled by Lovedrop (not sure where to get it anymore – I think its still floating out there on the net somewhere)
-Juggler’s ebook (I forget the title)
-Ross Jeffries’ “Basic Home Study Course.” 
-anything made by Real Social Dynamics (so far!) or Hypnotica or me or Vin Dicarlo.
-Tyler Durden’s blog aka the Real Social Dynamics Blog

P.P.P.S.: I also recommend getting the occasional bootcamp or private to move you along.  We are about to announce a  totally revamped seminar and bootcamp program (look for it later this week).  I hear awesome things about Vin’s,  RSD’s and Venusian Art’s programs as well (I used to teach for the guys at VA when they worked at TMM and can totally vouch for Lovedrop’s, Hawaii’s, Matador’s and Mystery’s programs).

P.P.P.P.S.: If this is the first time you have been to this blog and you want to get a grip on what we are talking about visit mehowgetthegirl.com and sign up for a free 7 day trial of our ebook. This ebook will initiate you to the world of Mehow’s proven seduction methods. If you want to learn how to attract and seduce women, how to pick up women in bars, in clubs in the daytime or any other time or place, this is where you need to start.

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