Part II

by Dave and Royce

So, last time we went over how to attract a girl who has a loose grasp of the English language. Now we need to address the qualification and mid-game.

Qualification – Through Statements:

Generally with qualification you can’t throw big hoops or get her to invest in stories of her life, so the key to qualification is instead – to make statements. The easiest way to calibrate this is when she kinos you, you throw a qualifying statement such as:

“You are fun”

“I like your energy”

“You’re actually a pretty cool girl… for being French”

At the same time, you want the girl to be investing in the interaction by working for you, this can be little things like moving with you, getting you a drink or generally complying with any of your requests.

When she does this you can throw a qualification statement to keep the interaction smooth, this subtly rewards her efforts.

Note: When sarging foreign women, you don’t ask big qualification directives such as “What’s your special secret super power?”.  Also, you don’t IOD her after qualifying her with an IOI.

For example -  In normal sarging, if she said she is an accountant you would say, “No way.  Accountants turn me on.  I love that about you.  But it would be weird if you woke up next to me and said, ‘baby, there are 865 tiles in your ceiling.’” In foreign girl sarging it’s very simple if you use an IOD at all:

<she acts fun> “You are fun.” or “I like your energy” or “You’re actually a pretty cool girl … for being French”

Building Comfort – Through Implicit Communication:

Whilst getting investment from the girl it’s key you get her comfortable with being around you even though she has trouble understanding you, the key concepts are below.

Leading: This is the most important concept, if a girl can’t understand what’s going on through explicit communication then your implicit or non-verbal sub-communications will take precedent, in fact most communication is non-verbal anyway. So leading the group or the girl, making decisions and being decisive are extremely attractive and very easy to demonstrate just by taking action. Which leads us to our next point.

Leading the Group: This also falls under leading but with a key difference, chances are that you will win the group over (if any of them speak English) faster then you would win your target over, for that reason they are the perfect tool to sub-comm the above attractive traits whilst you are sarging, they can also be used to help translate between you and your target. If you are leading the group but want the one girl that can’t speak English then you’ll need this concept.

Moving: You want to move your girl around the venue as much as you can.  Great places to go are to merge your target with other groups you have already opened that are fluent in your language.  Then the sets you merge into can also translate as if they were part of your target’s set.  This is particularly great when you merge your target with a set that has a fluently speaking girl that is hotter then your target.

Bouncing: You want the girl to go to a wide variety of places, but no longer just for the time distortion, but also to show you are a leader and to create a sense of you and her having an adventure. Which is extremely stimulating considering she doesn’t understand half of what you are saying.

Reciprocating Friendliness: This is huge, she has to see that you are a fun and friendly social guy, one of the easiest ways to do this is  to have other sets in the room that you can talk to (ones that are fluent in your language) during a takeaway to build jealousy and communicate the next important point.

Jealousy: While leading, leading the group, moving, bouncing etc. you will be constantly creating jealousy between your target and the other women you interact with.  Whereas in a normal sarge you spend most of your time in isolation – in a foreign girl sarge, you spend most of your initial time working with the groups around you while you take your target along for the ride.

Being Un-needy: It is key that you’re a non-needy guy who is just out having fun and being social, this is communicated in your takeaways, your body language and your vibe. You are never all up on the girl or coming across too seriously.

Proximity Kino: If you have proximity kino with your target whilst doing all the above you will be getting her attention and touch, builds a huge amount of trust and rapport even when there is a shared language.

Do all these things and women will find themselves consistently being pulled out of a venue by you, despite not understanding a word you say. What’s even more useful is that the above principles, whilst key to foreign sarging, are extremely important to regular sarging too and mastering them anywhere will see a huge boost in your game.

Now we’ve laid down the start and mid-game… we’ll hit you guys back with the end game soon.

So, stay tuned

- Royce & Dave

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