I didn’t even realise it contained lifestyle advice until the free audio clips either. That’s pretty cool.

“You have no idea what you just started… I’m going to beat you about the head with my cock.”
That’s hilarious. Totally awesome.
This shit is insane!

“It also depends on how you elicit the answer. try telling a story about your life or one of your friends, even a hypothetical one, that centers around these issues.”

I usually elicit this by finding out if they have other “boyfriends”. If they do, I’ll remark, “Most women have two boyfriends. One that spends money on them, one that they have fun with. Which is he?” The answer usually tells me what they’re looking for. It’s been my experience that single women that do not have a boyfriend, regardless of what they say, cannot handle a true situation where someone conveys sexual interest exclusively. You get pigeonholed into “Lover/Provider” category and if you just convey sexual interest, they LMR. Kate (?), your advice is to out-logic most women, which is easy. It just doesn’t work.

The easiest way to deal with this from my experience though is don’t even broach the subject until after sex. Anything prior to that is just shooting yourself in the foot and setting yourself up for bad situations. As one club player told me about what to tell women looking for relationships: “Lie, lie, lie, and then DENY!” The best rule that I’ve found to work is from someone I don’t remember but you have the rules:

1.) I will not be the only man in your life.
2.) You will not be the only woman in my life.

My add-on:

3.) The other guy can’t be a douchebag.

Saves a lot of heartache, grief, attachments, etc. if a woman has someone else to go to if things don’t work out. Another thing is that women tend to figure out almost everything subconsciously, which is why out-logicing her just doesn’t work. If you see a woman three times a week, even if it’s just for sex, they tend to assume LTR. Just see her during the weekdays, don’t see her on weekends, and don’t see her too often, all made easier if both of you have someone else to bang on the off-time. She’ll automatically assume what you want out of the relationship is just sex, and you won’t see each other enough to have to deal with too much emotional baggage.

And don’t let her start playing Risk either. She’ll move pieces of her stuff into your house one by one until she starts having to come over more often to get things. It’s a trap. If you start noticing too much of her junk is in the house, start giving it to her.

” Sometimes when the sex is really
good the women would like to have the choice to continue having sex
insetead of having the guy remove it because he assumes she
automatically wants a LTR.”

I’ve rarely heard of that happening with any women. More often when “fuck & chuck” syndrome arises, the guy will pretend to be interested in being the woman’s boyfriend and then disappear off. “Vampire sex” is a term I heard another woman use, (vanishes at sunrise).

‘He said “Because if you sleep with her more than once its a
relationship.” I had to laugh…it just seemed so ridiculous.’

Not very ridiculous. What most guys do is fuck a woman four nights in a row. Most women assume it’s a guy looking for a relationship at that point. Bonding hormones surface, she tells her friends about him, and then…. he disappears. The hit-it-and-quit-it approach, while not savvy, does avoid some other problems. Besides, sometimes a chick sucks in bed or has a vagina that feels like a warm cup of water.

Anytime. I’m glad to help because I believe that men and women would
get along much better if there were a greater mutual understanding.
>
>One question, for all the guys as well as for you. My experience is,
>if you ask a woman “which do you prefer, casual sex or LTR”, they
>will almost ALWAYS say LTR.

It also depends on how you elicit the answer. try telling a story
about your life or one of your friends, even a hypothetical one, that
centers around these issues. It could go something like…..
Welll, my friend likes this girl but he’s just over something, or is
going away to school, etc and wants to be with her, but can’t promise
a LTR……..see her reactions, pick up on her attitudes. Does she
empathize with both people? Just the man, just the woman? What does
this say about her and her experience? Ask if she’s ever had any LTRs
and what she thinks. I decided after my 3rd LTR (in 6 years) that I
was SICK of dealing with personalities and feelings and I just wanted
to get laid…so I did, and it was really fun. It also put me in the
right frame of mid to recognize someone who WAS worthy of my time and
concern, and now I’m married to him. Also, once she reveals her
opinions, tease the sources out of her. Did shge have a religious
ubrining? Is she from a one parent family?…etc.
You might be surprised at the number of women who want sex without
strings. The problem is, most guys egotistically assume that a woman
who would sleep with them would AUTOMATICALLY want to include them in
her life, which isn’t always true. I’m honest when i tell you I
wouldn’t be seen in public with half the guys I’ve been with in my
life….but they ALL assumed I wanted LTR. (Ha! They’d be kicking
themselves now if they realized how well things turned out for me in
all arenas.) Women fear that a guy they sleep with will not have the
ego strength to handle casual sex and friendship with them.

I don’t think this necessarily reflects
>reality, but is the “safe” answer for a woman to give, in a number of
>ways. She doesn’t want to come off sounding like a slut,

The fucking bullshit term I rally against constatly.
I’m proud to have experienced all I have before marriage.
I always could make as much or more money than my male counterparts so
FUCK THEM! Who cares what my reputation is?
Anyhow, if you assure her in some way that you have no problem with
experienced women you’lll probably score points.

and if she
>doesn’t know a guy pretty well already, she’s probably afraid that if
>she said “I’m all for casual sex”, he would say “well let’s go then!”

There has to be some measure of sensetivity. Women probably wouldn’t
fuck a guy they wouldn’t be friends with most of the time, so its
important to remember that sex does cause many women to desire bonding
on some level. Bonding is pretty open to interpretation though. its
not necessarily LTR.

>You call this ‘arrogance’… when the truth is… it is how men in this
>society have been trained to think… *by women*. We hear all the time
>about the guys that ‘love ‘em and leave ‘em’… any man who is concerned
>about this deserves credit and support… not chastisement. I am one of
>these men. While I may accept something temporary… I am always
>searching for something permanent.
>
>To be quite honest… I found your *reply* to be arrogant.

I can see why you would, but allow me to explain why love em’ and
leave em’ is so frustrating to women. Sometimes when the sex is really
good the women would like to have the choice to continue having sex
insetead of having the guy remove it because he assumes she
automatically wants a LTR. I actually asked a guy about this one time.

He said “Because if you sleep with her more than once its a
relationship.” I had to laugh…it just seemed so ridiculous.
I suppose any man who is genuinely concerned about a woman’s feelings
will try to find out what she does want before dumping her as a human
being.

>Perhaps what some guys are experiencing is the assumption of monogamy,
>not necessarily the assumption of an LTR. Expectations of monogamy,
>to me, feel very much like expectations of an LTR. Aside from health
>concerns (which are, of course, very important), I feel it’s perfectly
>fine for both parties in a sexual relationship to sleep with anyone
>they want to — hopefully there’ll be open communication on the subject,
>yes, but I don’t appreciate a woman who says she’s not looking for an
>LTR taking exception (on emotional, rather than health, grounds) to my
>wanting to sleep with other women. I don’t put those restrictions on
>women — why do they expect it of me?

The truth is , Tim, most women are frustrated by thier biology.
Intellectually a certain # of women do accept the ideas you’ve
discussed above, but then they actually have sex and suddenly bonding
hormones interfere with free ideals.
I think though, that if women thought it was OK to sleep with a few
different people at a time this wouldn’t be such a problem.
I have a good friend who was really wacky and free in her 20s…you
know, would just sleep with everyone and we’d applaud her. The problem
for her is that now she doesn’t know how to reconcile no-holds-barred
sex and desire with common sense choices. She says she wants to get
serious with someone but continues screwing drug dealers with pregnant
girlfriends. My point is, she says that these little side trysts mean
nothing to her yet she gets depressed each time she has one.
This is no irrational woman. She’s a highly paid scientist and excells
in her field. In any case, I make no judgement. If I were single
though, I would definitely not see or sleep with just one man at a
time, most likely.

Big Daddy has descended down to give you some insights in what it takes to be what I am – The Greatest Ladies Man on Earth.

I appreciate my time on this blog and will generally be interested in Mehow’s contributions because I think he is on the cutting edge of what the so-called PU community is doing. Let’s face it, Mystery is too creepy and Hypnotica too much of a bully.

I’ve learned some things while here.

And no, not only just how easy it is to, DECIMATE, TORMENT and HUMILIATE Big Daddy-Haters with just a few strokes of the keyboard. haha

That bores me now anyway. Talk about cheap thrills!.

I think what my interactions here have caused me to do is really SEEK OUT what it is that has made me the GREATEST LADIES MAN ON EARTH.

And today, I finally had a breakthrough. More of a confirmation really, as I’d kind of known most of this all along.

It doesn’t mean I’ll never have any more challenges with women.
Remember, just because you KNOW something, don’t think it means you’ll EXECUTE properly.

And this stuff is FAR more art than science anyway.

And it doesn’t mean I can get any girl at any time under any circumstances. That’s a myth AFC’s labor under that has no basis in reality.

It simply means that Big Daddy GETS IT.

He can attract and get with TONS of hot beautiful women in the age group he wants – 18 thru 22. And beyond as well!

That was my goal. It’s mission accomplished.

There are really just THREE KEY ELEMENTS needed of the average guy to be able to accomplish this.

And NO, none of them involve magic words, neg hits or sexually explicit soundbites – even though they are all interesting tidbits and have their place in my game now and then.

No, the THREE ESSENTIAL ELEMENTS ARE ALL NON-VERBAL.

And, if you do it right, girls are just drawn to you wherever you go.

You get to decide what to do with that magnetic appeal.

Big Daddy has got it. And is very grateful for the discovery. Hallelujah!

So, I bid you adieu….I have made it to the top of the mountaintop.

I’ve succeeded beyond my wildest dreams.

I actually KNOW what you guys are scrambling around like Keystone Cops trying to discover.

And I think I’m gonna keep it a secret.

Heck, why not?

More chicks for…

Big Daddy
TheGreatestLadiesManOnEarth

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