- Mehow’s Case Study #1 Continued -
Hey guys,
I keep my promises… so here is more free value that I promise will make you better infield today.
But, before we get to that… Vault and I have received scores of emails asking,
“Is Will (the guy from the interview on Monday), is the same guy featured in the infield footage we released a few weeks ago?”
Here’s the infield video footage just to refresh your memory:
Before footage:
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After footage:
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The answer is, “YES – it’s the same guy.”
In case you missed the interview with him, you can find it in this blog post.
In the video footage above, it’s hard to believe that you’re watching a guy… who was a virgin just 6 months before the second footage was taken.
There are a lot of unbelievable things about what we do here at Mehow, Inc.
But, the reason everybody freaks out over this stuff is that it’s all true.
Let me point out some of the really subtle things that Will is doing in the second reel that he’s NOT doing in the first reel.
These are the 3 biggest tactical secrets to appearing very well “calibrated” in field. The term “calibration” just means that you appear to her, yourself, and everyone else like the interaction is 100% natural and improvised on the spot. It further means that you don’t make social errors. There is a ton of stuff that goes into being calibrated but I want to point out the top 3 things you should be doing in field today to have better interactions.
If you haven’t already doing so – you should watch both of the above clips before reading the following 3 points:
1. Micro-Pausing (credit DJ Fuji) – note how will doesn’t have strange extended pauses in the second reel, yet he pauses more often than the first reel. In normal interactions, socially savvy people frequently stop their conversation for a second at a time at high points to check in with the audience. Conversely an uncalibrated stacker will just go on for a while without stopping and when the uncalibrated stacker stops he usually pauses for 3 or more seconds as he waits for a response. If he doesn’t get one then it seems really weird and reaction seeking.
In other words, the uncalibrated man appears to the woman like a guy giving a speech without caring at all about her reaction. And, even worse, when he does stop talking he acts like he expects some huge reaction from her which is needy. You can take identical material and deliver it with micro-pauses and it will be 200% more natural seeming. To micropause when you are at any emotional high point that makes contextual sense to stop at … just pause for a second. If she doesn’t say anything then continue. Never pause for more that 1.5 seconds unless it’s a deliberate pause for drama.
2. Simultaneous Kino – note how in the first video the Kino is sort of stiff and weird… that’s because it goes like … Will says something interesting – akward pause – Will does some Kino. In the second video, his Kino is looks smooth and he gets no resistance – that’s because he’s doing the Kino as he’s talking. This is the Microloop Theory law of instantaneous compliance at work – “If you give value simultaneously on the verbal channel, (or any other channel) while making any reasonable kinesthetic request your request will always be granted.” Ergo you get smoothness.
3. He’s Free Associating from What She Just Said – this is one of the fundamental principles from the “10 Second Sexual Attraction” system. When she says something, he typically free associated from it to a somewhat related emotional value giving topic. He only starts new topics when he can’t work off of what she said. The secret to this is to understand that you aren’t limited in the type of communication you are doing when you free associate. For example, when she gives some sort of rapport information you can free associate that into any type of communication such as future projections, teasing, being edgy, going sexual etc. Conversely, most men will take her conversation about her trip to France and talk about their trip to France when they should be taking the conversation elsewhere.
I could go on like this for a while. In fact, in the instructor training, field coaching and in our products we go deep into the tactical side of the interaction. The reason is simple, if you don’t understand all the little things going on and what effect they have – then you will have no conscious control over your own behavior and you will fail in field over and over again.
After all, this is a performance and if you aren’t conscious of your performance you will never, not ever, get better.
But beyond all that – there are 3 other big secrets at work that allow us to connect with the student and really make things happen. I have detailed all 3 of them in the FREE “A.F.C. Report”.
If you haven’t read the FREE “A.F.C. Report” – then do so now.
It’s a life changer, and you can get it here.
Now, there you have it… the mysteries of Will and how to get really good game, really quick – solved.
Bottom line, our training methods work. And, we are the only Pick-Up company in the known universe that collects hours and hours of footage like this weekly, to prove our point.
In fact, tomorrow, I’m going to show you more footage of a new, different student.
-Mehow
P.S. Impulse (impulse@mehow.tv) has informed me that we have 25 applications submitted already for the 4 MCI slots that we are officially announced on Sunday. If you want in on that, I humbly suggest that you contact Impulse today – before he closes the doors on that. We only have time to go through another 5 apps.
P.P.S. Our boot-camps sell out which is great news for all the guys that are about to graduate. In fact, the first ever MCI instructor boot-camp sold out beyond what we were planning on and we had to make changes to accommodate more people.
P.P.P.S. I’ve gotten some positively angry emails from guys saying stuff like “get off your high horse. you are sooo high on yourself” and what not.
My answer to that is:
Yeah, I’m proud of the work we do here. And, sure, I freely share the results of our efforts and our ultra-effective products and training.
And yet, somehow that seems to rub a few guys the wrong way.
Now, here’s the real fact of the matter: For every ounce of “advertising” in our messaging… we give out a few POUNDS of totally, free value.
Additionally, we’re the only PU company, I know of, that never repeats content. Whereas, just about every other PUA “newsletter” out there – will simply add you to their automated system… and send you the same regurgitated “value” – over and over again. We actually spend hours every day generating fresh, value rich content… which is tuned perfectly to where you guys are at. So shoot me.