Part II

by Dave and Royce

So, last time we went over how to attract a girl who has a loose grasp of the English language. Now we need to address the qualification and mid-game.

Qualification – Through Statements:

Generally with qualification you can’t throw big hoops or get her to invest in stories of her life, so the key to qualification is instead – to make statements. The easiest way to calibrate this is when she kinos you, you throw a qualifying statement such as:

“You are fun”

“I like your energy”

“You’re actually a pretty cool girl… for being French”

At the same time, you want the girl to be investing in the interaction by working for you, this can be little things like moving with you, getting you a drink or generally complying with any of your requests.

When she does this you can throw a qualification statement to keep the interaction smooth, this subtly rewards her efforts.

Note: When sarging foreign women, you don’t ask big qualification directives such as “What’s your special secret super power?”.  Also, you don’t IOD her after qualifying her with an IOI.

For example -  In normal sarging, if she said she is an accountant you would say, “No way.  Accountants turn me on.  I love that about you.  But it would be weird if you woke up next to me and said, ‘baby, there are 865 tiles in your ceiling.’” In foreign girl sarging it’s very simple if you use an IOD at all:

<she acts fun> “You are fun.” or “I like your energy” or “You’re actually a pretty cool girl … for being French”

Building Comfort – Through Implicit Communication:

Whilst getting investment from the girl it’s key you get her comfortable with being around you even though she has trouble understanding you, the key concepts are below.

Leading: This is the most important concept, if a girl can’t understand what’s going on through explicit communication then your implicit or non-verbal sub-communications will take precedent, in fact most communication is non-verbal anyway. So leading the group or the girl, making decisions and being decisive are extremely attractive and very easy to demonstrate just by taking action. Which leads us to our next point.

Leading the Group: This also falls under leading but with a key difference, chances are that you will win the group over (if any of them speak English) faster then you would win your target over, for that reason they are the perfect tool to sub-comm the above attractive traits whilst you are sarging, they can also be used to help translate between you and your target. If you are leading the group but want the one girl that can’t speak English then you’ll need this concept.

Moving: You want to move your girl around the venue as much as you can.  Great places to go are to merge your target with other groups you have already opened that are fluent in your language.  Then the sets you merge into can also translate as if they were part of your target’s set.  This is particularly great when you merge your target with a set that has a fluently speaking girl that is hotter then your target.

Bouncing: You want the girl to go to a wide variety of places, but no longer just for the time distortion, but also to show you are a leader and to create a sense of you and her having an adventure. Which is extremely stimulating considering she doesn’t understand half of what you are saying.

Reciprocating Friendliness: This is huge, she has to see that you are a fun and friendly social guy, one of the easiest ways to do this is  to have other sets in the room that you can talk to (ones that are fluent in your language) during a takeaway to build jealousy and communicate the next important point.

Jealousy: While leading, leading the group, moving, bouncing etc. you will be constantly creating jealousy between your target and the other women you interact with.  Whereas in a normal sarge you spend most of your time in isolation – in a foreign girl sarge, you spend most of your initial time working with the groups around you while you take your target along for the ride.

Being Un-needy: It is key that you’re a non-needy guy who is just out having fun and being social, this is communicated in your takeaways, your body language and your vibe. You are never all up on the girl or coming across too seriously.

Proximity Kino: If you have proximity kino with your target whilst doing all the above you will be getting her attention and touch, builds a huge amount of trust and rapport even when there is a shared language.

Do all these things and women will find themselves consistently being pulled out of a venue by you, despite not understanding a word you say. What’s even more useful is that the above principles, whilst key to foreign sarging, are extremely important to regular sarging too and mastering them anywhere will see a huge boost in your game.

Now we’ve laid down the start and mid-game… we’ll hit you guys back with the end game soon.

So, stay tuned

- Royce & Dave

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(when you don’t speak their language)

by Dave and Royce

Royce and Dave  here… and yes, we are finally recovered from the MCIP New Years Paris Invasion 2010.

This is a New Years ritual that started a few years ago, the MCIP and G12 programs join forces and have a freakin ball, last year was Copenhagen, this year Paris, next year who knows, but we are going to rock it, wherever it is

Picture 4 instructors, 2 instructors in training and 4 G12 guys … You can imagine the trouble we got into.

But, don’t worry it wasn’t all girls all the time, we took some time out to see the sights as well.

Now, what’s interesting about Paris is that unlike many other European cities, is that the women don’t predominantly speak English as a 2nd language, what’s even more challenging is that the ones that are able to only speak very basic English and the compliance to get them to do that, is 4x higher than any other country I’ve been to. Compare this to places such as Amsterdam or Berlin where all the girls speak near perfect English; this is a whole level harder.

Luckily there’s a fix. And, we are here to tell you what it is.

We spent days of pain staking time talking to some of the most gorgeous women in Paris just so we could figure this out for you guys, no need to thank us.

To start… we are going to briefly explore the structure critical to foreign sarging, interestingly all the same elements you regularly use are present, it’s the ratio that changes along with the way you sub-communicate these attractive qualities.

As you can imagine if you can’t communicate effective verbally, you gotta show the girls that you are still that high social value, attractive guys that we know you’ll be, if you’ve studied with Mehow for any period of time.

Now, the girls will still need to be able to speak a little English, but for the most part as long as you don’t need to explain quantum physics it should be cool.

In general – you apply the same structure as always. Attraction, midgame and endgame. However you need to play each of these phases differently and we will explain to you how.

First we are going to take a look at four concepts that are key in the attraction phase of foreign sarging.

1) Value Velocity drags massively when you are sarging a girl in her 2nd language this means non-verbal communication is key.

2) You mustn’t seek rapport, but break it on the open.

3) Jealousy / being a fun social guy.

4) Leading.

Let’s look at each of these separately to get a good idea of what’s happening.

Value Velocity:

Imagine that you only have the basic grasp of English, now imagine everything your friend is saying in English you have to translate and then respond to it in English… it takes some effort and you’re not going to get all the nuances and cultural references. Even worse unless you really like the person you’re talking to, is how likely are you to put the effort in?

Then take into the account that most of what you say has to be emotionally stimulating, but only half of that comes across, your VV is massively decreased and you’ll need to work twice as hard for just as much compliance. This is why non-verbal communication is key.

Rapport:

The moment you come into a set speaking a foreign language the girl is going to judge your social value and perceived value in the club, furthermore just by speaking another language she’s going to make a harsher judgement compared to others.

She can’t understand you.

Most guys make the mistake of going in and ’screening’ by asking if the girls speak English.  This is actually a rapport seeking question and the quickest way to get the girl to shut you down in a nightlife environment. Counter intuitive to some but true.  Bottom line you will get no compliance from her if you try the conventional approach.

Jealousy:

When there is a big language barrier it’s much harder to convey your awesome personality.  One of the best ways to make the girl realize how awesome you are, is to let her see that other girls like you.   This is hugely important to show pre-selection.

In Addition: Remember that the exotic is always in some way attractive, and you have the advantage of being a tourist  and that you will not be there much longer, so it actually becomes easier to SNL and harder to take numbers.  I mean -  if she has trouble understanding you – the phone is hardly a useful tool. You also have a very real time constraint in the form of being a tourist (whether you are or not) and this is insanely useful.

Leading:

If she can’t understand from what you say that you are the leader of men, there’s a much easier way, take the lead. Not only with her but also with people around you. This doesn’t just mean getting her to do stuff for you, but actively moving her and taking control.

So, now we have the core concepts for attraction we are going to show you how it’s put into play through looking at just one of the nights Royce did in Paris.

Application:

The first step to attraction is a non-verbal pre-opener or a takeaway on the open, what this means is that you get the girls attention and then non-verbally show your disinterest in her.

Generally this takes the form of any of the following:

• Patting her on the head whilst telling her how little she is.

• Grabbing her hand, turning it palm down and slapping it whilst saying “bad girl.”

• Turning sideways and brushing your shoulder off disdainfully at her.

All these things are done playfully.

The next step is simply a compliance test (such as a hi-5 and spin) + a takeaway to set up the chase cycle. Typically both of these are also non-verbal with the takeaway being your body rocking away.

From here you’ll often find girls pulling you back, which is where you can throw a compliance test to gauge how to continue the sarge with a screening question:

“Can you speak English?”

This is 10x more powerful then just going in with this directive right off the bat as doing so would be seeking rapport.

When the above sequence is done right the girl is going to make a strong move towards what your social value is. (How well you are groomed, your sub-coms and whether you’re her ‘type’.)

So, that’s it in a nutshell on how to start sarging women whose predominant language isn’t English.

So, get out there and try it out.

More to come soon,

-Royce & Dave

The Research and Development Division

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In this blog I am go into some advanced tech that you probably only have to use rarely, but are monstrously important if you are having issues with a particular girl giving you “You’re a PUA” attitude.

Also, if you love a challenge just for fun then this article is absolutely for you.

When you’re in field sometimes you get a shit test/IOD such as, “Is that a pickup line?”  usually that’s because you fucked up your delivery and/or  your value velocity is low.

So, you handle the shit test as per all the different ways I taught you.

But, sometimes you just keep getting the same lame, “you’re trying to pick me up, aren’t you” bs even after the handler or you get it for no reason at all right up front the second you open your mouth.

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Hey everyone…

Mehow here,

Welcome to 2010!

I predict that this year there will be a major shift in how society perceives social interaction.

The biggest reason is we’re going huge here at the Co. and it’s our job to enlighten people. (later this week I’m going to share with you some amazing stories of what happened when 10 of our instructors and G12 students invaded Paris for New Years, photos included

Women will pay attention. Most men won’t.

But, there will be increased competition in the dating pool as more men skill up.

In fact it seems like increasingly society is becoming aware of it’s own problem.

For example, go rent “500 Days of Summer” (it’s out on iTunes etc.) – that’s actually a highly realistic Hollywood portrayal of what really goes on.
(go watch the movie and then read my p.s. below).

So, how do you stay ahead of the curve in an increasingly enlightened environment?

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I’m not going to miss 2009, not because I didn’t like it, but because 2010 is going to be so much better.

09 was the year where we toiled super hard to take things to the next level. 2010 is when it’s all going to go down…

(yes, all my instructors will be employed by the end of january … yes, I need more … yes, we have a new warehouse … yes, we have a new customer service center … yes, we now ship international with global tracking … yes, AAS/GAM vol 2 is done … yes, we’re going to show you amazing new help technology this year … yes, we’re going to be expanding into brand new markets … yes, we’re going international something major … yes, our instructors are the highest paid and best trained in the whole entire world … yes, Infield Insider is back … yes, Infield Insider is receiving a GIANT GIANT upgrade … yes, we have a new checkout system … yes … yes … yes )

As a part of all that we cleaned major house and got some things that haven’t been done, done.

One of the things we did is finish the transcripts for the “10 Second Attraction: Infield Exposed”

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Hey guys.

Mehow here.

We’ve been quietly working away for the last few weeks getting you ready for the PUA Revolution of 2010.

In addition to building a fully functional underground bunker/spaceship that will take all of our customers to Secret PUA Planet X, we’re also …

1. getting more infield video ready for you
2. gearing up to take on more coaches (we need additional leadership on the spaceship)
3. have upgraded our warehouse (yes, finally – international tracked shipping … thats for all the provisions for the space voyage)
4. and were putting the finishing touches on the next manifesto (we’ve cracked the secret of the Scientologists and the freemason’s by reading the secret messages inside of Assassin’s Creed 2)

We’re doing all this because we *know* the secret 2010 PUA Revolution is coming because…

a) we made it to cosmopolitan magazine
b) mystery is publishing his new book and I’m in it
(thats like cats and dogs sleeping together)

This is not the entire list of *omens*, but all I’m prepared to reveal now.

For starters … below is the entire Cosmopolitan feature article for your Thanksgiving enjoyment …
(read who won!)

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One of our Master Instructors, Royce in Amsterdam, has recorded a special treat for us. Check it out now:

Or, “right click here” and “save as” the entire audio in MP3 format.

Credit to Royce and CJ for this free value.
-m